Acting On Inspiration, Being Different & The TV Sitcom

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Everybody’s got a special kind of story//Everybody finds a way to shine,It don’t matter that you got not alot //So what//They’ll have theirs, and you’ll have yours//and I’ll have mine//And together we’ll be fine//Because it takes, Diff’rent Strokes to move the world//Yes it does//It takes, Diff’rent Strokes to move the world.

So for the first time in a long time. I’m writing about stuff that excites me, not just stuff that I think the treehouse likes. I mean of course my Comebackers are important, but I believe that being truly passionate about your subject matter evokes some type of passion in others. So on this gratitude Friday, I grateful for my different strokes. I’m grateful that there’s nothing mindless about what I’m creating. I’m grateful that as I write, that I’m getting to really know and appreciate who I am. The upside, is that there are people along the way with whom my message resonates.

And finally that I’ve found my different stroke to move the world.

So what are you grateful for? Any TV sitcom that your life looks like right now? What theme song would you cite right now that really describes what your life looks like?

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  1. Jaci
    April 2, 2009 | 11:12 pm

    This is a good one.

    I am going to go with “Friends” because I looove that song and it works for me right about now.

    Life looks like…I honestly have no idea.

    I do have to say I’m grateful that I’m different too. It mixes life up.

  2. Damon
    April 2, 2009 | 11:44 pm

    A specific episode: “Once Upon A Time” from The Cosby Show, my favorite episode as a child. It’s the episode where Rudy tells a fairy tale of bad people invading a town of good people … she ends the story by telling the bad people to stop … and they stop. … That’s what I feel like I’m trying to do. Though that ish will never happen … lol.

    I can’t give just one song: Jason Mraz’s “Curbside Prophet” and Jay-Z’s “Moment of Clarity” …

    “Truthfully, I wanna rhyme like Common Sense/ (But I did five Mil)/I ain’t been rhyming like Common since/When your sense got that much in common/And you been hustling since/Your inception, (Fudge) perception/Go with what makes sense…”

  3. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 6:52 am

    Damon, I heart you with the Jay Z reference. lol

    Hey Treehouse!

    My life is like The Office right now… my boss is like Micheal… he doesn’t know people are laughing at him.

    My theme song would be Amazing by Kanye right now. I’m feeling myself a lil.

  4. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 7:20 am

    I’m grateful that I have an out, whatever it may be. I’m grateful to have proved the unbelievers wrong. I’m glad to be moving on….and I’m grateful for something BIG! 2009 and it’s right around the corner about to smack me in the face. Woot Woot!

    Television Theme Song:

    I know my parents love me,
    Stand behind me come what may.
    I know now that I’m ready,
    Because I finally heard them say
    It’s a different world form where you come from.

    Here’s a chance to make it,
    If we focus on our goals.
    If you dish it we can take it,
    Just remember you’ve been told
    It’s a different world form where you come from.
    It’s a different world form where you come from.

  5. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 7:37 am

    Show: The Wonder Years

    Song: Nas – 2nd Childhood
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=foKKQTc6nI8

    I knew, all that I’d seen had meant somethin
    Learned early, to fear none little Nas was huntin
    Livin carefree laughin, got jokes on the daily
    Y’all actin like some old folks y’all don’t hear me
    Yo I’m in my second childhood

  6. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 7:40 am

    @ NoMo

    I LURVED the Wonder Years! That and Boy Meets World! I wish they would show the repeats.

  7. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 7:46 am

    Good Morning good treeflowers I don’t have a tv show that represents me that I know of but I am really feeling this new miley cyrus song “the climb” Thats how I feel totally right now.

    I am grateful for so much this week.

    1. MEN- because they know how to use logic and not run off of emotion 24/7. I got put in check this week and had it not been for the men in my life the situation wouldn’t have turned out like it did.

    2. PASSION – I think I was up 13 hours straight last night from working. The job started out rough but I been implementing my own creations so I can work smarter and not harder, and its turning out to be a great thing I have been all over my town around down and back in 7 days!

    3. Iphone – I just love this thing really I do

    4. My mom – she urkes me sometimes but I still love her.

    here is my song

    Come and knock on our door…..
    We’ve been waiting for you……
    Where the kisses are hers and hers and his,
    Three’s company too.

    Come and dance on on our floor……
    Take a step that is new…..
    We’ve a loveable space that needs your face,
    Three’s company too.

    You’ll see that life is a frolic and laughter is calling for you……
    Down at our rendez-vous,
    Three’s company, too!!!!!!

  8. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 7:47 am

    oh yea I watched doogie howser a lot

  9. 80s
    April 3, 2009 | 7:49 am

    Hey good peoples. I miss yall. But my theme song would be from the golden girls. I have the best friends.

    You would see the biggest gift from me and the card attached would say thank you for being a friend

  10. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 7:50 am

    80’s I loved the golden girls!

  11. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 7:50 am

    I was such a nerd; I watched all of those shows, everything where there was a kid. LOL.. Family Matters, Blossum, Clarissa Explains it All. LOL… everything

  12. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 7:52 am

    I was watching the Golden Girls last night 80’s!

  13. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 7:53 am

    @ Sunny

    Yup watched those too! Loved Clarissa! Punky Brewster was my joint too.

  14. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 7:55 am

    TV show similar to life would be

    Good Times/Everybody Hates Chris

    Song: DMX – Born Loser
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bM0sT7SkSJ0&feature=related

  15. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 7:55 am

    @Clarissa: I loved Punky.

    Girl, Clarissa WAS ME, growing up. lol

  16. Why so Awesomeness?
    April 3, 2009 | 7:58 am

    yo what’s good everybody….

    tv show: fresh prince.

    song: detroit CYDI – too cool, and N.E.R.D. “tape you”

    and cut.

  17. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 7:59 am

    @ NoMo and Humster

    What are you grateful for this Friday?

  18. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 7:59 am

    @ Why Why

    That Too Cool track is the hotness.

  19. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 8:00 am

    And what are you grateful for Why Why?

  20. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 8:00 am

    oh yea and im grateful for my hair appt today cuz it aint been done in a month of sundays

    “detroit CYDI ”

    thats my jam!!

  21. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:01 am

    @whyso: LMAO @ tape you.. You freak!

  22. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:03 am

    I meant Dwight.. I keep calling him the wrong thing

  23. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 8:04 am

    there are some really flamboyant ungay men out there lol

  24. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:05 am

    Mik: He’s gay, he has to be. LMAO

  25. Why so Awesomeness?
    April 3, 2009 | 8:11 am

    Jada:

    thanks for the compliments! I’m grateful for life in general, as always. But more specifically, I’m grateful for iPhones, tax return checks, and this free N.E.R.D. concert we got going on tonite. WINNER

    nicki:

    naw baby don’t worry bout your make-up/ I promise I won’t get jealous and break-up lolol

  26. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 8:14 am

    why why you got an iphone too??

    sweeeet

  27. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:14 am

    @Whyso: Free N.E.R.D concert? What??? Okay,
    now I’m soooo jealous.

    “if this is a dream,
    I dont’ want to wake up.”

  28. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 8:15 am

    N.E.R.D is in detroit? wha??

  29. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 8:21 am

    Hmmmm…. I’m gonna go with The Jeffersons. Because I’m grateful that I’ve been blessed with success in nearly every aspect of my life. And I’m steady praying that I can maintain and don’t blow it.

    I really tried to work in Good Times some how because I will forever be convinced that the 1974-75 Thelma was the finest Black woman ever in sitcom history

  30. Tatica
    April 3, 2009 | 8:28 am

    Happy Friday,

    Nothing in my life resembles tv, at least nothing I can think of…but a song, “Ready for Love” – India.Arie

    I’m grateful that the success of others inspires happiness and inspiration, and not a feeling of competition as it does for many others.
    I am grateful for a sound mind and a resilient heart.
    And I’m always grateful for the freedom to enjoy life as I wanna.

  31. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:30 am

    @Tatica: That India.Arie song is beautiful!!!!

  32. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 8:36 am

    @Why So
    ” this free N.E.R.D. concert we got going on tonite. WINNER”

    When and where?

  33. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 8:38 am

    What are you grateful for this Friday?

    Peace of mind.

    and this free N.E.R.D. concert we got going on tonite.

    Im happy about that too, I plan on attending.

  34. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 8:42 am

    @Jada
    “What are you grateful for this Friday?”

    A roof over my head, food in my refrigerator, more than one car, and peace of mind.

  35. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 8:42 am

    Cool!

    How is the weather in Detroit?

  36. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:42 am

    McCartney, NERD To Play Free Concert

    POSTED: Tuesday, March 24, 2009
    UPDATED: 1:03 pm EDT March 25, 2009

    Rap-rockers N.E.R.D. and pop singer Jesse McCartney will perform at one of the free concerts during Final Four weekend in Detroit.

    The NCAA and the local organizing committee announced Tuesday the final musical headliners for the event, which will take place Friday-Sunday, April 3-5, on the city’s riverfront.

    N.E.R.D. will headline Friday’s concert, which will feature McCartney. Saturday’s lineup features the Pussycat Dolls and Gavin DeGraw. On Sunday, “American Idol” star Ryan Seacrest will host the day’s activities, including performances from Fergie, Staind and Gym Class Heroes.

  37. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 8:43 am

    Good morning treehouse! I use to say Sex and The City! It may still mirror that a little bit but I think I may be changing characters. I say SATC because I do have a wonderful life, job that I love on most days, and some think I’m pretty fashiony. Also when dealing with Mr. Iso he was my Mr. Big! I dunno maybe I’m still Carrie and Bailbondsman is my Aiden but unlike Carrie I’m not gonna let him go to go back and deal with Mr. Iso.

    BTW- I really miss u guys!

  38. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:44 am

    We miss u too Hol!

  39. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 8:44 am

    When and where?

    Tonight at Detroit Riverfront, says they are supposed to come on at 9pm.

    http://www.ncaamarchmadness2009.com/mens/big_dance.aspx

  40. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 8:45 am

    Hey Hollies!

  41. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 8:46 am

    Well to all of you partaking of the concert have fun and be safe tonight!

  42. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 8:49 am

    Hey jada & nick! Its been all types of crazy going on up in here!!! Whew! Lol!

    NoNo and KB I wanna go to a NERD concert! I’m a certified Pharrell stan!

  43. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 8:52 am

    “why why you got an iphone too??

    sweeeet”

    You are just so geeked to have a phone that doesnt have a rotary dial.

  44. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:53 am

    @Hol: I totally understand what it is like to be on 24 hour lockdown (in my Denzel voice)….. it will ATTEMPT to drive you nuts but be strong girl!

  45. Why so Awesomeness?
    April 3, 2009 | 8:55 am

    yes, the iPhone is a total win

    3.0 upgrade will bring mms, copy +paste, landscape typing and other goodies I can’t wait for.

    and n.e.r.d. will be hype.

  46. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 8:55 am

    How is the weather in Detroit?

    Raining, 50 degrees.

  47. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 8:57 am

    @Nick- yesterday I was made privy to some info that they r trying to catch me slipping! But it aint gonna happen! Not me! Lol! But I do have my back up plans in order

  48. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 8:58 am

    Raining, 50 degrees.

    Ehhh…hope it stops raining for the concert.

  49. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 8:58 am

    @ D money..”Rudy tells a fairy tale of bad people invading a town of good people … she ends the story by telling the bad people to stop … and they stop. … That’s what I feel like I’m trying to do. Though that ish will never happen … lol.”

    What are you going through dude???

    @ Jac “I am going to go with “Friends” because I looove that song and it works for me right about now.”

    Im one of those black folks who COULD NEVER get into friends. Maybe like the sentiment goes..how are you in a major metro city and no black people ever cross your path.

    @ Sunny “My life is like The Office right now… my boss is like Micheal… he doesn’t know people are laughing at him.”

    do you know I have NEVER seen the office. LOL. nor do i have any desire to do so.

    @ Zsa Zsa…you aging yourself LOL…

    @ 80s “Show: The Wonder Years” this was a great freakin smart show.

    @ Mik “Come and knock on our door…..
    We’ve been waiting for you……
    Where the kisses are hers and hers and his,
    Three’s company too. ”

    I LOVE three’s company…Suzanne Summers ..the smartest dumb blond ever…smarter that Jessica Simpson..she turned it completely around and ended up doing better than them all after they fired her.

    @80s..that is uber sweet..the golden girls.

    @ Sunny “Family Matters, Blossum, Clarissa Explains it All. LOL…

    my favorite was Blossom..

    @ Why Why “tv show: fresh prince” every guys fav.

  50. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 8:59 am

    @Nick- yesterday I was made privy to some info that they r trying to catch me slipping! But it aint gonna happen! Not me! Lol! But I do have my back up plans in order

    Dang Hols…why are they targeting you like that? SMH.

  51. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 8:59 am

    “@Nick- yesterday I was made privy to some info that they r trying to catch me slipping! But it aint gonna happen! Not me! Lol! But I do have my back up plans in order”

    @Holister: Honey that same thing happened to me at my last job… it was a manager of another department and her overweight coharts doing it!!!!! Be careful and good job on those back up plans…. keep your chin up!

  52. Tatica
    April 3, 2009 | 9:00 am

    Gente, I need some web recs…I’m stuck in a loop going to the same sites everyday, what do y’all read during the day? Anything but celeb gossip

  53. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:00 am

    “do you know I have NEVER seen the office. LOL. nor do i have any desire to do so.”

    @Comeback: I PROMISE. After u watch it, u will be addicted… I keep trying to get Mr. Nice Guy to watch. lol

  54. Tatica
    April 3, 2009 | 9:01 am

    Hang in there Holly!

  55. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 9:01 am

    “A roof over my head, food in my refrigerator, more than one car, and peace of mind.”

    @ Hummy..you cant beat that with a bat.

    @ Holliberry…we miss you too.

    @ Offey “I really tried to work in Good Times some how because I will forever be convinced that the 1974-75 Thelma was the finest Black woman ever in sitcom histor”

    She’s STILL pretty hot..even at like 50.

    @ TaTa “Nothing in my life resembles tv, at least nothing I can think of…but a song, “Ready for Love” – India.Arie”

    thats beautiful.

  56. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:02 am

    @Jada- idk but they target the strong minded. Its like they break u down to build u to what they want.its like pledging in this piece!

    @nick- girl I am! At least twice a day I’m in the prayer closet!

  57. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:03 am

    @ Hols

    They tried th same thing with me at this job here. But they had to slow their roll when I began meeting and breaking goals they were unable to accomplish w/o me.

    But they can kiss where the sun don’t shine….cause I’m biding my time, and I’m getting out of here soon.

    So stay up chica.

  58. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 9:04 am

    “@Comeback: I PROMISE. After u watch it, u will be addicted…”

    CO-SIGN!

  59. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:05 am

    “@nick- girl I am! At least twice a day I’m in the prayer closet!”

    @Hol: U are doing the right thing!

  60. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:05 am

    Thank u tatica! I am girl!!

  61. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:08 am

    @jada- yeah I’m staying up! And that’s what I’m doing playing the game but also out there looking at other teams!

    @nick- girl that’s what’s been getting me through!

    @cbg- hopefully ill be back and won’t have to respond on this blackberry!

  62. Damon
    April 3, 2009 | 9:11 am

    @No More: You got me with the Wonder Year, my dude. Great pick.

    @thecbg: I’m honestly not going through anything. It’s about the blog, strictly … and where it’s going. I just scared the mess out of you (unintentionally). lol.

  63. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 9:15 am

    *Begin PSA*

    Six from Blossom had best white girl booty ever. Thank you.

    *End PSA*

    Also, I heard a while back that the reason The Wonder Years is not in syndication is because they were unable to clear the rights to use the numerous songs played during the series. That’s a daggum shame… I watched Kevin and Winnie religiously.

  64. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 9:15 am

    “I just scared the mess out of you (unintentionally). lol.”

    Yes you did @ D money…but some of your letters arent about telling people to stop! Some of them are “nice” letters of encouragement..no? like Kerry Wash.

  65. Damon
    April 3, 2009 | 9:16 am

    @cbg: yeah, but … I’m just going to e-mail you so you understand …

  66. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:17 am

    And this song dedication goes out to my Dear Hollies. Everything gonna be alright baby girl!

    *Singing*

    I’m leaving all that darkness behind
    And making changes in my life
    So when that Sunshine finally finds me
    I can stand fully in the light
    Spread my wings and reach for sky
    I never felt so alive
    Kiss my kids goodnight
    Tell them mama’s alright…I’m alright now!

    Honey Child there’s a whole world waiting on you
    Took a while but we finally made it through
    Go ahead you can smile
    Now all that darkness behind you
    And smile smile SMILE!

    *End Singing*

    ~SMILE : Lyfe Jennings

  67. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:19 am

    Awww thanks Jada!! I guess I can’t dislike Lyfe no month! Lol!

  68. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:19 am

    Lyfe Jenning????

    ***toothbrush to the throat **** I’m shanking myself.

  69. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:20 am

    Sunny if you ever bothered to really listen to what he had to say….you’d be a fan.

  70. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 9:20 am

    Morning treehouse!

    My life right now it looks like a reality TV show… Have to cram 36 hours of stuff into 24 hours…

    But my theme song is this right there: (Rise up)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjHSu4wNTyw

    My dream is to fly over da rainbow so high

    I am grateful for my wonderful parents. I panicked yesterday and my dad was there to coddle me back and he even sent me special prayers for strength…
    I have been doing all kinds of projects and fell short on cash, and my mother sent me a little something.
    I truly have the best parents in the world.

    I am grateful because the boo will be here in less than 2 days! Yes!!

    And my sisters and my great friends who are making the trip to Vegas to celebrate my birthday in these TETs! Gotta love them.

    I am grateful that God keeps providing!

  71. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 9:20 am

    “@cbg: yeah, but … I’m just going to e-mail you so you understand ”

    send to GMAIL..

    thecomebackgirl

    @ EVERYONEINTHETREEHOUSE..EVERYONE NEEDS TO BE WATCHING JILL SCOTTS no 1 lady detective agency on Sunday on HBO!!!!

  72. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:21 am

    “Sunny if you ever bothered to really listen to what he had to say….you’d be a fan.”

    @Jay Boogie: I can’t get past that voice among other things… it’s so unpleasant to my ears (the scratchiness)

  73. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:21 am

    The rest of that song is so uplifting, inspiring, and beautiful. Got me through some REALLY tough times!

  74. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 9:21 am

    @offdwall
    “Six from Blossom had best white girl booty ever. Thank you.”

    Cosign. The only reason I watched Blossom.

  75. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:22 am

    @ CBG

    I’m right on top of that Rose!

  76. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 9:22 am

    Hey guys and gals…Happy Aloha Friday!

    It’s funny how I find time to comment on this blog now that I’m working as opposed to the many months I wasn’t…hmm…

    Anyway, if I had to choose a sitcom that most represents my life right now, I too, would choose the Office. And I know this isn’t a sitcom but I would choose Survivor combination with the Office. What can I say, I’m a fan of reality TV. In all my jobs, I always think about who I would vote off if I had the chance and who would be left standing if we had the opportunity.

    As for my theme song, in light of some man issues, I choose Adele’s “Chasing Pavements.” Although I choose not to go down the path that “leads nowhere”, this song just solidifies my decision to keep walking and wait for the better God has for me.

  77. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 9:23 am

    @ Darth: Me too. I think that might be the only show in history where the biggest azz and biggest nose shared a stage. lol

  78. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:23 am

    Has anyone been watching Making the Band??? ok, I haven’t been a follower of the show, but I’ve seen clips and so far, all they have been doing is fighting… mainly Q.

    And I’m disappointed bc these guys can really make a good record. That first album was fiyah..

  79. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:23 am

    @Jay Boogie: I can’t get past that voice among other things… it’s so unpleasant to my ears (the scratchiness)

    It’s very different. But the content of his music supercedes all else for me. Iono….I dig him. Not to mention he’s a nice guy.

  80. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:24 am

    @Coco: Chasing Pavements gives me chills.. that is a beautiful song and I love her voice

  81. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:24 am

    That’s awright, e twin..

    We agree on so many other things… this one is moot. Lol

  82. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:25 am

    “@ CBG

    I’m right on top of that Rose!”

    Don’t tell mom, the babysitter’s dead!

  83. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 9:26 am

    @Coco… I love Adele. Her voice is just so soulful!

    And oh! I’m grateful that I am working from home and will cope the new Prince for like $12 bucks. Yay Target!!! :)

  84. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:26 am

    @Jada- imma imeem the song when I get home!

    @Coco- I love that song!!!

    @Nick- Q is on drugs!!

  85. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:27 am

    “@Nick- Q is on drugs!!”

    YES! That is exactly how he is acting, Hol

  86. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:29 am

    Yes nick!! He needs prayer! I heard he and Dawn broke up!

  87. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:30 am

    “@ CBG

    I’m right on top of that Rose!”

    Don’t tell mom, the babysitter’s dead!

    Yes maam! You know it’s been on HBO lately.

  88. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 9:31 am

    @offdwall
    ” I think that might be the only show in history where the biggest azz and biggest nose shared a stage. lol”

    Blossom did have a honker on her. I think the show with the best backsides has to go to Martin. Pam was killing it. I would throw Gina in but she has no hips. A honorable mention goes out to Kim on A Different World too.

  89. Why so Awesomeness?
    April 3, 2009 | 9:31 am

    OH YEAH ANOTHER THING TO BE THANKFUL FOR!

    bachata

    yeah. bachata is nice. very nice.

  90. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:31 am

    @Hol: Oh my! I hope not… seems like she is what keeps him grounded… she’s so calm mannered and loving to him.

    But on the other hand, for her , if he’s flipping out like that, that can be hard to deal with.

  91. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:32 am

    “Yes maam! You know it’s been on HBO lately.”

    @Jada: R U serious? LMAO.. Girl, I remember when me, my cousin, her brother and my brother went to the dollar movies to see it

  92. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:33 am

    @Nick- she is but yeah he’s acting a little schizo!

  93. Damon
    April 3, 2009 | 9:35 am

    @ the “Blossom” men talk …

    co-sign/INDEED.

    Six is the only reason I watched any episodes of “The Parkers.” I know that sounds bad, but it’s true.

  94. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:35 am

    @Jada: R U serious? LMAO.. Girl, I remember when me, my cousin, her brother and my brother went to the dollar movies to see it

    Yup! I have to watch it at least once when they start playing it again. You know HBO will play a movie and then put the same movie on another HBO an hour later. I was actually watching this the other day.

    *Clean the Happy Fat Fats yourself!*

  95. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:36 am

    Six is the only reason I watched any episodes of “The Parkers.” I know that sounds bad, but it’s true.

    I don’t blame you…the Parker’s was terrible. You can’t make a spin off of everything.

  96. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:37 am

    “@Nick- she is but yeah he’s acting a little schizo!”

    @Hol: With all that blinking and twitching and nonsense…. I saw Robert break down, crying on the NY streets last night… that was bad form… on a NEW YORK street????

    “You know HBO will play a movie and then put the same movie on another HBO an hour later. I was actually watching this the other day.”

    @Jada: LMAO! YESSSSSS. They used to frustrate me with that.. I’d be like what am I payin for this for?

  97. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:37 am

    I hijacked my lil brother’s 40 year old virgin this week..

    I can’t wait to watch it again.

  98. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 9:38 am

    “Pam was killing it. I would throw Gina in but she has no hips.”

    @Darth: This the truth. Pam was had some amazing moments in that series. And Kim from Different World was working things too. You know who else is working it that is a secret crush for me… Tracie Ellis Ross. Lawd lawd lawd

  99. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 9:39 am

    @Damon
    “Six is the only reason I watched any episodes of “The Parkers.” I know that sounds bad, but it’s true.”

    I watched that for Six and the Professor’s girlfriend. I don’t remember her name but she was right. She also played on In The House with LL.

  100. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:39 am

    @nick- very bad form!!

    I love that by the way Jada! U need to roadtrip to Atlanta when Nick comes!!

  101. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 9:40 am

    I see offdwall uploaded a pic… Let me get on my grind and upload mine real quick! Lol!

  102. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:40 am

    The Parkers is sooo embarassing. It gets under my skin when they do the ghetto “us” shows…

    Honorable mention:
    *One on One (but when they went off and were by themselves it was cool)
    *All of Us
    *Tyler Perry Show

  103. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:40 am

    “I love that by the way Jada! U need to roadtrip to Atlanta when Nick comes!!”

    YES!!! I agree, Jada.. I’m coming there in two weeks!

  104. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 9:41 am

    @Lovely: Vite! Vite! Allons!

  105. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:41 am

    I hijacked my lil brother’s 40 year old virgin this week..

    I can’t wait to watch it again.

    LOL! That was funarious. I bought SlumDog Millionaire yesterday…so I’ll be watching that sometime this weekend.

  106. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 9:43 am

    @Nicki
    “All of Us”

    I think I may be the only person that thinks Lisa Raye cannot act. Or maybe she can act but her accent takes away from the roles she plays.

  107. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:43 am

    In The House with LL

    Loved that show.

    YES!!! I agree, Jada.. I’m coming there in two weeks!

    I might consider this. If I can get in tip top health by then I just might!

  108. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:43 am

    Slumdog is so good! I’m all about indie flicks! I tsk tsk u though for not seeing it before all its awards!

  109. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:43 am

    Humble: are u talking about Maia Campbell? She was on In The House..

    A video surfaced not too long ago… they said she was on crack now.

    http://www.thadoghouse.com/2007/01/01/where-are-they-now-maia-campbell/

  110. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 9:44 am

    @offdwall — I see your pic…but what is it a picture of?

  111. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:44 am

    @humble: Her accent def hoods on the “unseasoned” side of the country…. I don’t think she can act but I loved PLAYAZ CLUB

  112. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:45 am

    What in the heck is tip top health Jada?

  113. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:45 am

    @ Hollies

    I was actually about to. After you guys were on here speaking so highly of it. I think that was around another time I got sick and wasn’t able to make it before it recieved all it’s kudos. I was edged out by like a week.

    I was gonna see it even after the awards show, but then found out it would be dropping on dvd only about a month later….so I decided I would just wait and buy it.

  114. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:49 am

    What in the heck is tip top health Jada?

    It means this damn cough gets gone…and I get my breath and energy back. I feel like I can hardly breathe and anything takes so much energy. Sickle ain’t no joke sometimes Hollies.

  115. lovelyparadox
    April 3, 2009 | 9:50 am

    @Nicky… how do I upload my pic again? I registered but can’t find the upload thingie.

    @off… Quand est ce que tu pars a Dakar?

  116. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:51 am

    @Lovely: Click on “my account”

    Then Edit Profile,

    Then My Gravatar, change your gravator.. that should work mami!

  117. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:51 am

    I think I may be the only person that thinks Lisa Raye cannot act. Or maybe she can act but her accent takes away from the roles she plays.

    I liked her in the Wood. But that was prolly cause she wasn’t in it for very long.

    But this:

    “I’m not gon cry
    I spent too much time on this damn make-up!”

    Classic!

  118. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:51 am

    I hope you feel better soo Jay Boogile

  119. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:52 am

    “It means this damn cough gets gone…and I get my breath and energy back. I feel like I can hardly breathe and anything takes so much energy. Sickle ain’t no joke sometimes Hollies.”

    OMG! How long u been sick!!

  120. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 9:55 am

    @ Coco: It’s a picture of the brand on my arm. Didn’t turn out like I thought it would in my Gravatar, so I’m finna change it.

    @ Lovely: 25-27 Mai

  121. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 9:56 am

    Well I’ve been sick off and on for the last six weeks. I had a bad episode of pain that started last Thursday. I was able to get the pain under control but the other stuff like the coughing, no energy, shortness of breath is till carrying on.

    I don’t have insurance so I’ve been hesitating going to the docter..but I’mma just suck it up and go after work today….cause I gotta get my mojo back.

  122. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 9:57 am

    @Nicki
    “are u talking about Maia Campbell? She was on In The House..

    A video surfaced not too long ago… they said she was on crack now.

    http://www.thadoghouse.com/2007/01/01/where-are-they-now-maia-campbell/

    I’m not talking about her. This is who i’m talking about.

    http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0106182/

  123. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 9:59 am

    Got ya Humble.

    She’s gorgeous!

  124. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 9:59 am

    Dang Jada! Wow! Girl I hate to hear that! I want u to go to the doctor though! Will they give the meds or will they try to do a physical and all that other stuff!

  125. lovelyparadox
    April 3, 2009 | 10:01 am

    @Nicky… Thanks darl, hope it works.

    @Off… Cool! On business? Fun? Both?

    Where is CBG?

  126. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 10:02 am

    I’m sure they will check my vitals and all of that. But since they know my history hopefully they’ll just give me some antibiotics and I can be on about my business.

  127. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:02 am

    no problem, Lovely. Let me know if you need anymore help with it.

  128. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 10:05 am

    @lovely — what a lovely smile.

  129. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 10:06 am

    @Lovely: un jour de travailler et un jour de jouer. Ensuite je vais à l’Espagne

  130. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:06 am

    LP: U got on! Nice smile chica! Love the lipstick shade.

  131. Bgrits
    April 3, 2009 | 10:07 am

    My life right now…..

    TV Show:
    Sex & The City
    Law & Order
    The Dog Whisperer

    Theme Songs:
    Crazy by Gnarls Barkley
    Jesus Can Work it Out by Dr Charles Hayes/Diane Williams
    I just want it to be over by Keisha Cole

  132. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 10:08 am

    “You are just so geeked to have a phone that doesnt have a rotary dial”

    shooo iz

  133. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:11 am

    @Jada- ok! Pls go to the doctor I want u better!

    @lovely & offy- what’s up with the French?

  134. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 10:11 am

    humble since I started this new job its been so cool

    i actually use the calander on it, I but everything in the notes section so i can remember stuff

    there is this app i uploaded for tracking the food i eat

    this wacktastic son of a gps, that i use EVERYDAY can’t wait for the new one

    speaker phone, google, unlimited text….

    um yea i feel like a superstar, and actually my life seems a bit more organized due to the phone lol

  135. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:13 am

    Mik so glad u got unlimited text!

  136. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 10:17 am

    nobody at work even knows its a phone lol

    me too Holly!! I been texting my lil bro a LOT nah lol

  137. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 10:20 am

    Thankful for health and life. Feeling good and blessed by the Best.

    Married With Children is by far my favorite sitcom, but I can’t say my life sucks so much that it’s comparable to Al Bundy’s. No More took the Wonder Years already, so I’ll forego the TV show theme.

    Since me and my on-again/off-again girlfriend are permanently off again, and it’s time to move on, my R&B theme song (for now) is Troop – Spread My Wings.

    I’ve often wondered how I managed
    Always searching, but, not finding a true heart
    What does it take to find me a lover?
    I’m hoping that I don’t have to fly to far

    The sky is calm, the stars are bright
    What’s better than to be in flight?
    I’ll relax my mind and be at ease
    And let this journey set me free
    Set me free, set me free

    Spread my wings, and fly away (away)
    To a place that I long for.
    And my heart will be the pathway
    I’m searching for a love that’s ever more

    And since I’m thankful for life and life’s experiences, my hip hop theme song is Beautiful Morning by Little Brother.

    Each day’s another chance to do the things I could’ve
    Done the day before, but I didn’t and I known I should’ve
    So I say a prayer for the gone for gooders
    Who left this world, then kiss my girl, “good mornin’, suga”

    If I had to go back, I wouldn’t change a thing
    Wouldn’t re-cut it, re-edit, or change a frame
    ‘Cause it would not be fair, to turn my back on the struggle
    When that exact same hustle got me here

    Cause even though the birds ain’t singin’ and the sun ain’t shinin’
    It looks like a beautiful morning!

  138. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:21 am

    Mik my lil bro has an Iphone… I text him but he hardly texts me back. He tries to blame it on poor service. I told him I call BS!

  139. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 10:26 am

    lol Holly, idk my phone dropped a couple calls but it always has a signal and i can use it in the building at work pretty good.

    he might be tellin the truth lol

  140. V Renee
    April 3, 2009 | 10:27 am

    Good Morning!!!

    Nick – Please forgive me, I can’t access wordpress from work, so I never got a picture set up. I will work on that this weekend.

    I’m thankful for life, family, health friends, and a J-O-B!!!

    TV Show – on the weekends Sex and the City (it’s amazing how I never get tired of that show). All other times a combination of In Living Color and The Office. My life seems like a variety comedy show at times.

    TV Theme Song – Golden Girls, The Adams Family and Family Guy.

    Overall Life Theme Song – Goaple “Closer”

    My family has been cracking me up lately. Especially my daddy. Me, my sis and him have a date to go out on town tonight. This should be very interesting/entertaining.

  141. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 10:28 am

    *sulks* I want an iphone. Sprint sucks…

  142. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:28 am

    Imma believe u Mik only cause in Michigan too! Lol

  143. V Renee
    April 3, 2009 | 10:29 am

    OMG @ Hugh’s Troop. I haven’t heard of them in forever. My cousing used to be married to one of the guys in Troop…very random

    @ Jada – I hate hearing that you’re sick. Can they call in a prescription for antibiotics without you going in?? Take care of yourself….

  144. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 10:29 am

    I’m Here

    WHO MISSED ME!!!!

    let me read.

  145. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:30 am

    Coco I rebuke that statement!! They don’t suck!

  146. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:31 am

    @v: I totally understand. U get a pass. ;)

  147. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 10:31 am

    “Imma believe u Mik only cause in Michigan too! Lol”

    yea everything needs to have exceptions to the rules around here lol cuz we all outta wack.

  148. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 10:33 am

    Overall Life Theme Song – Goaple “Closer”

    Beautiful song.

  149. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:34 am

    Mik u telling the truth!

    I think I’m going to Jasons Deli for lunch!

  150. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 10:40 am

    apparently no one ok :)

  151. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:41 am

    @CBG: U know we missed ya!

  152. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 10:42 am

    @Comeback: I missed you! Girl, I been thankin’ ’bout you all day ‘n stuff. LOL

  153. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 10:42 am

    @ Sunny and Offey

    GOOD!!! now …what did i miss?

  154. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 10:43 am

    @ Jada – I hate hearing that you’re sick. Can they call in a prescription for antibiotics without you going in?? Take care of yourself….

    Thanks V. I already tried that…everybody keep saying I need to come in. I keep wanting to ask if they plan on paying for it? But whatevs. Gotta do what I gotta do.

  155. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 10:44 am

    “Coco I rebuke that statement!! They don’t suck!”

    @Holly — I’m just jelly…that’s all.

  156. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 10:44 am

    Ya know I missed ya CB. Ole disappearing self.

  157. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:44 am

    @CBG: U absolutely missed NOTHING. lol… just people spouting random stuff… no deep convos in here yet.

  158. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:47 am

    @coco- don’t be jelly!!!!

  159. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 10:49 am

    I missed u comeback!

  160. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 10:50 am

    Coco I rebuke that statement!! They don’t suck!

    Actually they do! But they have been getting better recently. Guess after you lose millions of customers you gotta start fixing things.

  161. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 10:51 am

    “OH YEAH ANOTHER THING TO BE THANKFUL FOR!

    bachata

    yeah. bachata is nice. very nice.

    What is Bachata??

  162. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:52 am
  163. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 10:56 am

    @ Lovely..I love that rise up song…it makes me wanna go to the beach!!

    @ Hewie “Since me and my on-again/off-again girlfriend are permanently off again, and it’s time to move on, my R&B theme song (for now) is Troop – Spread My Wings. ”

    i didn[t know a guy could be so sentimental about a break up ..CUTE!

    @ B “TV Show:
    Sex & The City
    Law & Order
    The Dog Whisperer”

    The Dog Whisperer??? you have pets?

    @ V “TV Show – on the weekends Sex and the City (it’s amazing how I never get tired of that show). ”

    I think Sex in the City will go down in history has the best lady tv EVER….its classic. I think the another movie comes out in 2010 or late this year.

  164. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 10:57 am

    “Google is our friend:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachata_(music)

    Not when you have A.D.D and multi-tasking 5 million other browsers and email/internet

  165. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 10:58 am

    “Not when you have A.D.D and multi-tasking 5 million other browsers and email/internet”

    @CBG: I know that’s right. lol… U stay off of it and leave googling to me. ;)

  166. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 10:58 am

    I think Sex in the City will go down in history has the best lady tv EVER….its classic. I think the another movie comes out in 2010 or late this year.

    Ditto! I have every season on DVD…the movie. Not to mention I watch the TBS re-runs and have watched the movie at least times this week with it being on repreat on HBO and all. I’m sure that number will go up over the next couple weeks.

  167. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 10:59 am

    Awww, it uploaded! I thought it didn’t so I changed the pic thinking it was too heavy… Oh, well!

  168. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 10:59 am

    Coco I rebuke that statement!! They don’t suck!

    Actually they do! But they have been getting better recently. Guess after you lose millions of customers you gotta start fixing things.

    I remember Sprint cutting my homegirls’ phone slam off cause she owed .26 cents.

  169. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:03 am

    what is Bachata?

    @off… Great! I’m sure you’ll love it. Dakar can be beautiful… I actually know a bunch of Americans living there.

  170. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 11:04 am

    Jada they will do that but I have a corporate contact I deal with…

  171. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:05 am

    Ahhh Hollies that’s why they don’t suck for you. You got a hook up. Others aren’t so fortunate.

  172. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 11:11 am

    “I remember Sprint cutting my homegirls’ phone slam off cause she owed .26 cents.”

    That happened to me a couple years ago too! Honestly…that’s just ridiculous. But I’m the stupid one that stays with them…But with the iphone out, I may have to just pay this fee and get out of my contract OR put my prepaid legal benefits to the test and see if they can get me out of it. I have some valid reasons why they SHOULD waive the fee and release me.

  173. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 11:14 am

    Ok…i have to do one more plug for Jill Scott no1 Ladies dectective agency on HBO sunday.

    LOL ..sorry!!

  174. Jaci
    April 3, 2009 | 11:17 am

    Hey guys. I’ve been at the gym all morning…so just coming by to say hello!!!

  175. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:18 am

    Woot! Woot! I just made out like a bandit, I just booked a 5 day-4 night room in the middle of the stip for like $350… If the recession is good for one thing, it’s cheap travels (and low mortgage rates)…

  176. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:20 am

    In the middle of where Lovely?

    Hey Jacster!

    The sudden layout change kinda threw me for a minute.

  177. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:20 am

    Errr… is it me or did the template just change on us? :)

  178. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:20 am

    @Lovely: Word?? That price is bananas. Weekday rooms are usually cheaper, but that is really low. Now you have more to lose at the casino. LOL

  179. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:20 am

    Indeed it did.

    *Looks for edit button*

  180. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:21 am

    @Jada… In the middle of The Strip in Vegas…

  181. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:22 am

    Oh okay. That’s not bad at all!

    Bout to look for vacation deals!

  182. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:26 am

    I like this layout.

  183. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:26 am

    @offdwall… Right? It’s from thursday to Tuesday and the week-end of easter… I mean it’s def not a luxury hotel (a la Caesar’s palace or Bellagio) but it’s in the middle of the strip!!! :)

  184. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:27 am

    LMAO.. no problem CBG, we all love Jill Scott

  185. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:29 am

    @Nicki and CBG… Lol! I heard a lot of meh reviews on the show… I would have to catch it but my thriftiness prevents me from having HBO… I had it for Sex and the City and that was it! Lol!

  186. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:29 am

    @Comeback, the comments just popped up without a refresh. If you have just made this happen with the new template, I think I love you.

  187. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 11:29 am

    Comeback stop fooling around with the doohickey

  188. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 11:30 am

    Oh man no refresh…kick @ss

  189. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 11:30 am

    Yes this new format is SOO cool.

  190. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:30 am

    @Lovely: Naw I don’t have it either.. I cut all that crap off.

  191. Jaci
    April 3, 2009 | 11:33 am

    Whoa…this is very berry friendly

  192. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:35 am

    @Jaci: Yeah it is… I know Comeback got tired of my 8 million refreshes. LOL

  193. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:35 am

    @Off, I refresh like a muggg too.

  194. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 11:36 am

    The upside to refreshing is that it keeps my place where i left off…now it’s like a chat room…lol.

  195. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:37 am

    Oh you gonna make me look it up on the Berry to see Jac.

  196. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:37 am

    @Nicki: I could tell you were fresh from your Gravatar. lol

  197. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:38 am

    @off: Thank you honey. I love a compliment. ;)

  198. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:40 am

    fresh = fast, in the South. lol but I was j/k

  199. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:41 am

    @off: LMAO. I am from the semi south (considered to some) but I didn’t know that one!

  200. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:43 am

    @off, I’ve heard the “fresh” before but didn’t know it meant fast…. Lol!

    @Nicki…. Girl, you gon let him get away with it? :lol:

  201. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 11:43 am

    what the effy? i leave for 5 minutes and come back to a new site? where am i? who are you people and what did you do with cbg!!!

    j/k I like

  202. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:44 am

    @Nicki: LOL, you never heard an old lady say to a little girl: “You ain’t supposed to wear open-toe shoes! That’s for women who are fresh!” LOL

    @Lovely: Why you wanna be startin’ somethin’??? lol

  203. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:44 am

    @mik…. —————– Dead! Lol!

  204. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:45 am

    @Off… I’m just sayin!

    @CBG…. the need for change spilled over to the blog, uh? Lol!

  205. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:46 am

    @LP: Girl, he know I’ll come out after him.

  206. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:46 am

    @Nicki: LOL, you never heard an old lady say to a little girl: “You ain’t supposed to wear open-toe shoes! That’s for women who are fresh!” LOL

    @Lovely: Why you wanna be startin’ somethin’??? lol

    @ Offy…what about…don’t whistle…it’s not ladylike. Grandma used to tell me that foolishness.

  207. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:46 am

    Who’s over here about to look for new jobs again? I’m so sick of my boss…. Again.

    LMAO. I promise we go through this once a month. I’m sooo sick of him.

  208. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 11:47 am

    yall sho this refresh new doohicky works?

  209. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:48 am

    Lord, why did I put myself on IM… Ugh!

  210. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:50 am

    “@Nicki: LOL, you never heard an old lady say to a little girl: “You ain’t supposed to wear open-toe shoes! That’s for women who are fresh!” LOL”

    I think this just kilt me…. seeing as I looked down at my feet and my lil red toes is peeping through my PUMPS.

    Dang, yaw. I’m a “fresh” one today.

  211. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 11:50 am

    Comeback Girl turns on the P.A system on the blog…

    ***testing testing..1,2,3…Comebackers…Do not panic. I repeat..DO NOT PANIC..the header function on this blog stopped working and in an OCD/ADD fit of rage, I had to remove the black header that was annoying me. Thus taking you all on a bit of a stylisitc rollar coaster ride. ***

    sorry.

    Namaste.

    as you were

    over and out.

  212. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:51 am

    Speaking of “fresh,”

    My granny used to trip out of I wore a skirt but didn’t wear stockings to church.

  213. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:51 am

    No problemo Comeback. Change is good

  214. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:51 am

    “@ Offy…what about…don’t whistle…it’s not ladylike. Grandma used to tell me that foolishness.

    Yep.. or “Don’t cross your legs! Ladies cross at the ankle!”

    I always used to laugh when I would pick up this girl I dated in high school, and on our way out the door, her grandma would always say, “Keep that nickel between your knees Desiree!”

  215. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 11:52 am

    “My granny used to trip out of I wore a skirt but didn’t wear stockings to church.”

    @Nicki: That right there is a little boy’s dream!! LOL

  216. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 11:53 am

    “Keep that nickel between your knees Desiree!”

    *DEAD*

    Grandma’s are awesome!

  217. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:54 am

    ““My granny used to trip out of I wore a skirt but didn’t wear stockings to church.”

    @Nicki: That right there is a little boy’s dream!! LOL”

    I promise she did that even as I was an adult.

    Oh, oh.. When I used to wear pants she’d flip. SHe ain’t been to my new church yet. Shoot sometimes I even wear jeans!

  218. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 11:57 am

    @Nicki… I’ll be “fresh” too in a couple of hours… Lol!

  219. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 11:58 am

    “@Nicki… I’ll be “fresh” too in a couple of hours… Lol!”

    @LP: High Fives… Don’t have them shoulders out girl… you’ll really be fresh.

  220. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:02 pm

    “I promise she did that even as I was an adult.”

    @Nicki: Because she also knows that that is sho’ ’nuff a man’s dream too! I told that to this lady once that I eventually asked out on a date. I went to pick her up, and she came to the door in a long white flowing jersey dress and heels…. with no stockings. I took immediate notice and started wondering “what was up under there.”

    During the concert we went to (went to see Rachelle Ferrel, George Duke, and Phil Perry), she leaned over to me and said, “I have nothing on under this dress.”

    CHANGED.MY.LIFE.

  221. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:04 pm

    @offdwall…. I am dying at changed.my.life.

    Men are so easy to please sometimes. LoL!

  222. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:06 pm

    “I took immediate notice and started wondering “what was up under there.””

    @off: I must be some kinda slow bc I never imagined a man whould think that.

    “”During the concert we went to (went to see Rachelle Ferrel, George Duke, and Phil Perry), she leaned over to me and said, “I have nothing on under this dress.”

    I bet you it did change your life. That is classic!!!!!

  223. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:09 pm

    “Men are so easy to please sometimes. LoL!”

    @Lovely: This is very, very true. I’m amazed that this sort of thing isn’t common knowledge amongst women. It’s like starting from scratch in every new relationship. LOL

    “@off: I must be some kinda slow bc I never imagined a man whould think that.”

    @Nicki: REALLY??? I retract my “fresh” statement then. A fresh girl would know that and play it to her advantage. You must, instead, be a sweetheart.

  224. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:11 pm

    @Nicki: REALLY??? I retract my “fresh” statement then. A fresh girl would know that and play it to her advantage. You must, instead, be a sweetheart.”

    @off: Or just slow. LOL. I know yaw some kinda freaky, but I couldn’t imagine that one. U just let me in on a little secret.

    For the record, I am about 85% sweetheart

  225. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:13 pm

    @Nicki: That’ll be $19.99 payable in cash, check, charge, or…. we can work something out. LOL

  226. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 12:14 pm

    V Renee: “OMG @ Hugh’s Troop. I haven’t heard of them in forever. My cousing used to be married to one of the guys in Troop…very random”

    Yeah, I had to dig in the archives for that one. They were like the generic New Edition.

    CBG: “i didn[t know a guy could be so sentimental about a break up ..CUTE!”

    I guess posting the lyrics to a song about moving on after a break-up is sentimental. I guess I could have used Gang Starr’s “Ex Girl To The Next Girl”, but I thought Troop was a little more accurate (if not more corny).

  227. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:14 pm

    @offdwall…. so who are implying is the “fresh” girl, uh? :lol:

  228. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:15 pm

    Where did the Auto refresh go, CBG? :(

  229. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:17 pm

    @off: I ain’t got it, Let’s work it out. I do have on a sundress today. I can just take the leggings so u can imagine it. lol

    (*joking*)

  230. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:17 pm

    @Lovely: LOL! Well…. you DID have on RED lipstick. AND you’re going to VEGAS?? Uhhhhh…. lol

  231. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:18 pm

    @Nicki: the sundress sans leggings will be just fine. But how are you going to pay the remaining $9.99????

    KIDDING!!! LMAO

  232. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:20 pm

    What’s for lunch? I’m hungry kids.

  233. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:20 pm

    @off:

    ****runs from off like the repo man ****

    LMAO

  234. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:20 pm

    @Offdwall… I see you (and my grandma, and aunties an nem) are trying to put a damper in my fun… but it’s an epic FAIL! :)

  235. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:21 pm

    @Nicki
    “I am from the semi south (considered to some) but I didn’t know that one!”

    You are from the south. I am from the semi-south.

  236. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:21 pm

    @Jada: I had peanut butter cookies!

  237. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:22 pm

    @Jada… I’ve been pondering lunch as well… Then one of my besties called me and invited me to a belated B-day lunch.. So I’m covered.

    What u having?

  238. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:22 pm

    @Humble: U know some people consider it the Mid-west!

  239. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:22 pm

    @Jada
    “What’s for lunch? I’m hungry kids.”

    burrito from Qdoba

  240. Holly GoLightly
    April 3, 2009 | 12:22 pm

    Jada I’m having Jasons deli!

  241. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 12:23 pm

    “@Lovely: This is very, very true. I’m amazed that this sort of thing isn’t common knowledge amongst women. It’s like starting from scratch in every new relationship. LOL”

    I didn’t know yall was simple until like last week lol

  242. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:23 pm

    Humble, u know NOTHING about Qdoba.

  243. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:25 pm

    @Lovely Paradox
    “Then one of my besties called me and invited me to a belated B-day lunch.. So I’m covered.”

    One of your besties that’s built like Lastarya?

    @Nicki
    “U know some people consider it the Mid-west!”

    It’s a former slave state and some of the residents chew tobacco. It’s the south.

  244. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:25 pm

    Man all of that sounds good! I think I’m going to be stuck with my tired looking ham sammich.

  245. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:26 pm

    @Nicki… I want some cookies too!

    @Mik… Men are the simplest creatures on earth. We are the complex ones.

  246. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:27 pm

    It’s a former slave state and some of the residents chew tobacco. It’s the south.

    *DEAD @ Hummy’s South ‘requirements’*

  247. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:29 pm

    “@Nicki
    “U know some people consider it the Mid-west!”

    It’s a former slave state and some of the residents chew tobacco. It’s the south.”

    You so smart Hummy. :)

  248. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:29 pm

    @Offdwall… I see you (and my grandma, and aunties an nem) are trying to put a damper in my fun… but it’s an epic FAIL!

    @Lovely, No I ain’t! LOL Puhleeze… I am the dude your aunties an’em warned you about! Get our sexy, fresh, sassiness on to the nth degree!! To do anythis else is like the square root of 2…. irrational. LOL

  249. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:30 pm

    @Darth Humble

    “One of your besties that’s built like Lastarya?”

    This one is more of Rachel Roy -esque variety…

  250. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:31 pm

    that should be “your” vice “our” lol

  251. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:31 pm

    @Hugh Jazz
    “I guess I could have used Gang Starr’s “Ex Girl To The Next Girl”, but I thought Troop was a little more accurate (if not more corny).”

    HA! What you know about that? Mine would have been a toss up b/w “Ex Girl To The Next Girl” or “Take it Personal”. Take it Personal is one of my favorite beats of all time. We use to do that beat on the tables in the lunchroom ciphers.

  252. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 12:31 pm

    Hey everyone!

    I hope everyone’s having a lovely Friday…what’s going on?

  253. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:35 pm

    @off….. I am so cracking up at that calculus reference!! You just disproved your theory by saying it!! (but nerds are certified sexy so you’re cool!) :)

  254. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 12:38 pm

    Humble: “HA! What you know about that? Mine would have been a toss up b/w “Ex Girl To The Next Girl” or “Take it Personal”.”

    Guru was the man. “Ex-Girl” didn’t really apply in my situation, so I had to use a song that was a little less abrasive.

  255. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 12:41 pm

    Jada: “Man all of that sounds good! I think I’m going to be stuck with my tired looking ham sammich.”

    I’m really feeling some Rocky Rococco’s right now, but I’m stuck with my chicken breast, salad and almonds. I swear, trying to keep a six-pack is vastly overrated.

  256. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 12:42 pm

    You just disproved your theory by saying it!!

    @Lovely: LOL touche. Well, then again, I asserted that acting a certain way is rational, but I just stated it as thought I’d multipled the equation by -1. LOL

  257. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:43 pm

    @Lovely Paradox
    “This one is more of Rachel Roy -esque variety…”

    I had to google that name to see who you were talking about. She is nowhere close to Lastarya.

    @Jada
    “*DEAD @ Hummy’s South ‘requirements’*”

    There are parts of the midwest that could easily be mistaken for the south.

  258. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:44 pm

    but I’m stuck with my chicken breast, salad and almonds.

    That actually sounds good Jazzy. Specially compared to my ham sandwich.

  259. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:46 pm

    @Hugh Jazz
    “I’m really feeling some Rocky Rococco’s right now, but I’m stuck with my chicken breast, salad and almonds. I swear, trying to keep a six-pack is vastly overrated.”

    That’s because you are greedy. All you need is one-pack. Why do you need 5 more packs?

  260. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 12:46 pm

    but I’m stuck with my chicken breast, salad and almonds. I swear, trying to keep a six-pack is vastly overrated.

    Actually that sounds pretty good, and I’ve been going through the exact same thing…I cheated my @ss off the other day and had some coney.

  261. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:47 pm

    @Hugh Jazz… your salad sounds mighty good though! Lol @ trying to keep a 6-pack… In a couple of weeks, I am about to try the PX90… Any takers wanna join me?

  262. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 12:47 pm

    Jada/Humble: “@Jada
    “*DEAD @ Hummy’s South ‘requirements’*”

    There are parts of the midwest that could easily be mistaken for the south.”

    Milwaukee is one of them. Every black person here has relatives from Alabama, Georgia, Mississippi, or Arkansas. Born and bred here, but just as cone tree as their relatives.

  263. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:47 pm

    had some coney.

    Oooohhhh! A chili cheese Nathan sounds so great right about now.

  264. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 12:48 pm

    @LP: what’s the PX90?

  265. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:49 pm

    @Humble… Different styles, but Rachel Roy is a gorgeous lady.

  266. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 12:49 pm

    In a couple of weeks, I am about to try the PX90… Any takers wanna join me?

    I started P90 a couple of weeks ago. I feel good when I’m not dying.

  267. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:49 pm

    I am about to try the PX90… Any takers wanna join me?

    I’m slow Lovely…what is this?

  268. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:50 pm

    @Nicki… PX90 is this crazy workout program that rips you up in like 90 days… It is A LOT of work, but I am trying to get challenged… :)

  269. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 12:50 pm

    @Jada-I think I need to come and cook for you…I need you to do better. I had baked chicken and salad…and now I have to go to the car to get that water, but I’m almost motivated enough to go back to the gym.

    @Humble-Don’t talk about the South…it’s your future home.

    @Hugh-I have a question about the hip abductor…does that work? Is it beneficial?

    @NMH-What have I told you about cheating? ;)

    And stop talking about hot dogs it takes me to a bad place.

  270. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 12:51 pm

    @NoMore… Wow! I’mma have you give me updated reports on that… I’m trying to get a couple of homeboys to do it with me, and they’re dragging their feet…. How do you like it so far?

  271. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:53 pm

    @Jada-I think I need to come and cook for you…I need you to do better. I had baked chicken and salad…and now I have to go to the car to get that water, but I’m almost motivated enough to go back to the gym.

    LOL! Thanx for looking out Jacster. But I rarely leave work to eat cause it’s such a hassle…so I be stuck with home made lunch in it’s simplest form.

  272. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 12:53 pm

    Humble: “All you need is one-pack. Why do you need 5 more packs?”

    Hey, I’m a part-time personal trainer. I have an image to maintain.

    No More: “Actually that sounds pretty good, and I’ve been going through the exact same thing”

    It doesn’t sound good when you’re eating four of them in a day for several days. I’m sick of baked chicken breasts. And yes, Jac, I’m black.

    Lovely: “In a couple of weeks, I am about to try the PX90… Any takers wanna join me?”

    That program works. A guy at my gym tried it, and he lost so much weight he looks like a teenager now.

  273. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 12:54 pm

    @NoMore… Wow! I’mma have you give me updated reports on that… I’m trying to get a couple of homeboys to do it with me, and they’re dragging their feet…. How do you like it so far?

    And I’mma need reports, mini updates, and pictures! ;)

  274. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 12:56 pm

    @Hugh-Sweetheart, I have evidence to prove that while you are light you are most definitely black…I don’t think an “other” would have your…*looks for Slim* swag…

    Yep…they don’t make me wanna do things I can’t explain like you….

  275. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 12:57 pm

    @Hugh Jazz
    “Milwaukee is one of them. Every black person here has relatives from Alabama, Georgia, Mississippi, or Arkansas. Born and bred here, but just as cone tree as their relatives.”

    The midwest is funny like that. Its crazy how different parts of the south migrated to certain cities. It seems like everyone from Mississippi and Arkansas went to Chicago, Milwaukee, and Gary. In Detroit it seems like the majority of people came from the southeast. But for the most part southerners went everywhere up here. Sometimes you can tell how long someone’s family has been up here. I got friends born and raised in Detroit that sound and act like they are from Alabama. Their parents were born and raised in the south.

  276. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 12:59 pm

    Jac: “-I have a question about the hip abductor…does that work? Is it beneficial?”

    Not really. It’s cool as a finishing move in a leg workout, but it doesn’t work much of the leg musculature.

    Picture someone you can’t stand, and you get one free shot to kick them as hard as you can. In what direction can you kick harder: swinging your legs front to back, or side to side? That’s the best way I can explain how useless that machine is. Stick to squats, lunges, and the leg press. You can probably do one set of the hip abductor at the end of your workout.

  277. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 12:59 pm

    @NoMore… Wow! I’mma have you give me updated reports on that… I’m trying to get a couple of homeboys to do it with me, and they’re dragging their feet…. How do you like it so far?

    I like it a lot. Im still trying to find the exact schedule that works for me, but so far I do the ab workouts every other day and the legs and back on the other days. I havent done any of the cardio exercises yet since I still run at the gym. Its exhausting but rewarding, I’ve already shed a little weight on my targeted trouble area.

  278. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 1:02 pm

    I love to read about the Black migration North back then… There is this book that I absolutely adore: Rush Home Road by Lori Lansens, about a settlement of Blacks in Canada… I highly recommand. It’s just a beautiful and touching story.

  279. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 1:02 pm

    And I’mma need reports, mini updates, and pictures!

    Wow, I might as well make this a video documentary and make you a DVD box set.

    Hey, I’m a part-time personal trainer. I have an image to maintain.

    Can I get your email address if you dont mind, I have some questions for you.

  280. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 1:04 pm

    No More: “Can I get your email address if you dont mind, I have some questions for you.”

    jamiwa3@hotmail.com

  281. Lovely Paradox
    April 3, 2009 | 1:06 pm

    @NoMore…. Cool! I love having first hand testimonies… Please keep us posted. I am getting hyped about it! (In typical Aries fashion, I’m not even done with the first project and already rushing to the other one).

    Y’all, I gotta go. I am running the triathlon tomorrow (wish me luck). I just want to finish it alive. Lol! And I am heading to the pre-race convention.

    It was a fun morning hanging out in the treehouse… (CBG WHERE DID YOU GO???!!! :) )

    Smooches all!

  282. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:08 pm

    Wow, I might as well make this a video documentary and make you a DVD box set.

    That will do.

  283. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:09 pm

    “@Nicki… PX90 is this crazy workout program that rips you up in like 90 days… It is A LOT of work, but I am trying to get challenged…”

    @LP: Crikey… Got it.

    I need someone to find me body in a bottle please? lol

  284. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:09 pm

    Have a good one Lovely…and kick that tritholon’s Bootay!

  285. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 1:09 pm

    @Hugh Jazz

    I got a question for you. Right now I have bonked. I haven’t been to the gym since Wednesday. I am having a hard time waking up too. I am not sure if it’s my body adjusting from the 5 days I spent last week on the West Coast or I just need to rest. I should I chill or should I take some kind of supplement? I take vitamins already.

  286. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:10 pm

    Bye Lovely! Good luck on the race.

    @NMH-Hugh will set you straight like nobody’s business…

    @Hugh-Thanks for the advice…I was doing it this morning and thinking this feels pointless.
    Is it too much if I go walk the hill I live on right now…as in after dishes and before shower?

    *sigh* Life is too busy and I don’t even work.

  287. Hugh Jazz
    April 3, 2009 | 1:12 pm

    Humble: “I got a question for you. Right now I have bonked. I haven’t been to the gym since Wednesday. I am having a hard time waking up too. I am not sure if it’s my body adjusting from the 5 days I spent last week on the West Coast or I just need to rest. I should I chill or should I take some kind of supplement? I take vitamins already.”

    I wouldn’t worry about additional supplements since it’s only two days back. It’s really hard to tell because I don’t know your normal sleep schedule, but time zone differences can mess with your circadian rhythms.

    If anyone else has questions, e-mail me. I have a two hour meeting to go to. Yay.

  288. Just Mik
    April 3, 2009 | 1:14 pm

    I always get teary eyed when i listen to the dave show on fridays

  289. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:16 pm

    @ Jazzy

    You’re a personal trainer? Awesome…I maybe have to hit you up with some questions. My dad’s a trainer…and so is my bff. But I always like to get other people’s input too.

  290. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 1:16 pm

    Thanks Hugh, email sent.

  291. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 1:20 pm

    Hewie Lewis why don’t you get a web cam so i can interview you and we can all ask you questions and see you break out into raps with your workout tips.

  292. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:26 pm

    @comeback — I don’t know if I’ve ever asked you…but what do you do for work?

  293. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:30 pm

    Hewie Lewis why don’t you get a web cam so i can interview you and we can all ask you questions and see you break out into raps with your workout tips.

    I am officially past dead.

    Because I died talking to Ms. Gracie on the ArcTrainer at the gym. She was talking about Monica and the blue dress….said something like she would have been up there too, but she couldn’t say what she would have been doing!

    I died…and went to Jesus and I told her I was there too

  294. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 1:30 pm

    @ CoCo…wireless telecom

  295. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:31 pm

    Ughhh. My sandwich was so disenchanting. I threw it away. Still hungry.

  296. V Renee
    April 3, 2009 | 1:32 pm

    Good Luck on the race Lovely.

    My boss is doing the P90X or maybe it is the PX90….hell I don’t know. What I do know is he comes in here hobbling every morning. It sounds too strenuous for me.

  297. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 1:32 pm

    “I don’t know if I’ve ever asked you…but what do you do for work?”

    Disagree with and try to prove the yoyo’s wrong.

  298. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:34 pm

    “I don’t know if I’ve ever asked you…but what do you do for work?”

    Disagree with and try to prove the yoyo’s wrong.

    DEAD. Again…Hummy you’ve been on a roll against CBG all week long.

  299. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:35 pm

    Disagree with and try to prove the yoyo’s wrong.

    This made me giggle.

  300. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 1:36 pm

    “My boss is doing the P90X or maybe it is the PX90….hell I don’t know. What I do know is he comes in here hobbling every morning. It sounds too strenuous for me.”

    @ V..i actually wouldn’t mind it for 90 days…if my muscles could memorize the confusion and then i go back to “normal” gym activity of 4 days a week 40 min cardio and 20 min strength training..

    but hells to the nawl if i had to do this forever.

  301. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:37 pm

    “Ughhh. My sandwich was so disenchanting. I threw it away. Still hungry.”

    @ Jada — that stinks. Were you the one saying you were going to Jason’s deli? I’ve never been but I’ve heard it’s good…

    I went to BJ’s with come co-workers…I had pizza and salad…yeah forget the eating clean at lunch…but we were celebrating my bday today…so good and satisfying!

  302. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 1:37 pm

    ““I don’t know if I’ve ever asked you…but what do you do for work?”

    Disagree with and try to prove the yoyo’s wrong.

    I don’t undersatnd..hummy doesn’t think i work?

  303. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:38 pm

    “Disagree with and try to prove the yoyo’s wrong.”
    “I don’t undersatnd..hummy doesn’t think i work?”

    @cbg – I think he’s saying your job is to bash yoyo’s all day.

  304. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:39 pm

    BJs is my fav, CoCo

  305. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:39 pm

    I’m sick of the 2520s and this dayum air conditioning.. we are about to have WWIV up in this piece.

  306. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:39 pm

    @ CoCo

    That was Hollies who went to Jason’s. And they are pretty good. If I had gone there I doubt if I’d have found my disenchanting sandwich in the trash.

  307. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:41 pm

    “BJs is my fav, CoCo”

    @I know right? Just had it for the first time like a month ago…but it’s definitely a favorite lunch spot now. Their lunch menu is SO reasonable. Have you had the pazookie? One word: BOMB. And they brought one to me today since we were celebrating my bday.

  308. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:41 pm

    Nick you know the 2520’s would have the air on all through winter here if us folks with melanin wasn’t going for that.

  309. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:41 pm

    @Nicki — Where do you work?

  310. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 1:43 pm

    “@cbg – I think he’s saying your job is to bash yoyo’s all day.”

    Oh yeah i got TWO jobs…lol

  311. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:43 pm

    And she’s good at BOTH!

  312. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 1:44 pm

    @Nicki
    “BJs is my fav, CoCo”

    Is that right?

  313. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:44 pm

    @Nic-Don’t hurt them dear…you know I’m enthralled as hell with one at the moment!

    @Jada-I will need to BBM you later on the details or maybe I’ll blog about it over the wknd.

    @CBG-He does think you work…he’s being sarcasting…you know rocking out with his c0ck out…he doesn’t know it’s going to get cut off if he doesn’t stop.

  314. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:45 pm

    @Nick-re: Hum’s comment…I thought it was HJs you do well…so say the fluids on your hands?

  315. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:45 pm

    “@I know right? Just had it for the first time like a month ago…but it’s definitely a favorite lunch spot now. Their lunch menu is SO reasonable. Have you had the pazookie? One word: BOMB. And they brought one to me today since we were celebrating my bday.”

    @Coco: GIRL… yes that Pazookie is all kinds of blissful SIN. LOL. I love it!!!! I haven’t had the lunch menu yet, I’m always there after hours… that’s where we took my homegril last Friday.

    @Jada: I could just SMACK them for it… these fools be having it on 50 in their offices.. thing is, in my office, I dont’ have a personalized setting (I don’t know why), so I am controlled by the building.

    @Coco: I’m a legal assistant for an attorney who does all kinds of business stuff.

  316. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:45 pm

    “BJs is my fav, CoCo”

    “Is that right?”

    @Humble — are you making trouble over there?

  317. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:46 pm

    “@Nick-re: Hum’s comment…I thought it was HJs you do well…so say the fluids on your hands?”

    @ Jac — EEK!

  318. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:47 pm

    “@Nicki
    “BJs is my fav, CoCo”

    Is that right?”

    @Humble: Those too smart a.

    Jaci, I know he nasty

  319. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:48 pm

    @Coco-This was a special moment that took place…a little joke of sorts…

    we’re all kinds of weird here at the treehouse.

    I personally love BJs but there’s no one worthy

    Where’s offdwall? I’m owning my eagle.

  320. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 1:49 pm

    @Nicki
    ” I haven’t had the lunch menu yet, I’m always there after hours… that’s where we took my homegril last Friday.”

    There is a lunch menu for BJs? BJs after hours too? You and your homegirl were down with BJs last Friday?

  321. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:50 pm

    @Nicki
    ” I haven’t had the lunch menu yet, I’m always there after hours… that’s where we took my homegril last Friday.”

    There is a lunch menu for BJs? BJs after hours too? You and your homegirl were down with BJs last Friday?

    JADA! Make him stop it.

  322. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:50 pm

    @ Jac

    Finally doing a lil revealing eh?

  323. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:50 pm

    “There is a lunch menu for BJs? BJs after hours too? You and your homegirl were down with BJs last Friday?”

    Humble, U are so hard up, it ain’t even funny… I’m gonna trick you out and start taking bids on ya for your rite of passage.

  324. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 1:50 pm

    @Jada-Well hell…you’ve known I was a busy girl…multi-tasking ain’t easy

  325. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 1:52 pm

    Did somebody say eagle????

  326. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:52 pm

    There is a lunch menu for BJs? BJs after hours too? You and your homegirl were down with BJs last Friday?

    GASP! WHY WE NEVER! (OKAY THATS A LIE), BUT THE E-TWIN AIN’T ALL WILLY NILLY WITH HER SHAT!

  327. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:53 pm

    So in case y’all ain’t know….Humster in time out.

    Gwan and sitchoazzdown.

  328. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:53 pm

    “GASP! WHY WE NEVER! (OKAY THATS A LIE), BUT THE E-TWIN AIN’T ALL WILLY NILLY WITH HER SHAT!”

    @Jada: And u know this. Humble is close to retarded.

  329. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 1:54 pm

    @ Jac

    BUSY ain’t the word for you miss. You on some ole superwoman thang. But I ain’t mad. I wish I had the energy to keep up…working on that!

  330. Darth Humble
    April 3, 2009 | 1:55 pm

    @Nicki
    “Humble, U are so hard up, it ain’t even funny… I’m gonna trick you out and start taking bids on ya for your rite of passage.”

    You aint lying. I should have took ol girl back to the room that night in Vegas. It just a phase i’m going through. It’s been a while since i’ve gone through this. The last one was when I was obsessed with breast.

  331. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:57 pm

    “You aint lying. I should have took ol girl back to the room that night in Vegas. It just a phase i’m going through. It’s been a while since i’ve gone through this. The last one was when I was obsessed with breast”

    @Humble: NOOOOOO. U could’ve slipped and put a live one up in her. U are doing good.. Thiis celibacy thing ain’t easy. Honey, I’m just like u some days.

    Is our role call still up? lol

  332. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 1:57 pm

    Jaci u done scared CoCo off with your freaky comments!

  333. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 1:59 pm

    “Jaci u done scared CoCo off with your freaky comments!”

    @Nic — I know..I told her my virgin ears were starting to bleed in a side convo. lol…calm down folks…you say virgin up in here and people become unglued!

  334. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 2:01 pm

    “@Nic — I know..I told her my virgin ears were starting to bleed in a side convo. lol…calm down folks…you say virgin up in here and people become unglued!”

    @Coco: LMAO. Girl, disregard us! I think more thant half of us are not even indulging right now, so we are at that BRINK. lol

  335. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 2:02 pm

    Nick-She ain’t scerrddt…she like it.

    Hummy-You might have pulled an Usher and nutted up…she might have been seriously injured…

    Jada-Even I don’t know how I do it..for real..sometimes I get confused. The good news they are so chivalrous…now the 2520 has my nose wide open though

    Offf-Hey…I was just owning my oral eagle.

  336. offdwall
    April 3, 2009 | 2:02 pm

    Now I’m confused…. first I hear eagle from Jac and then I hear virgin from Coco. Ya’ll “confrusin’” me!

  337. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 2:03 pm

    “Nick-She ain’t scerrddt…she like it.”

    @ Jac — Haha…how’d you know?

  338. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 2:04 pm

    Ya’ll “confrusin’” me!

    Please don’t confuse Offy. Me gon make him just as crazy as the rest of us.

  339. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 2:06 pm

    @Coco: LMAO. Girl, disregard us! I think more thant half of us are not even indulging right now, so we are at that BRINK. lol

    @ Nick…I just realized I done slid into 5 months! That didn’t take long at all. Ish gotta stop! Big’s coming though!

  340. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 2:07 pm

    @Off-I’m liberaller with my panties than Coco is with hers….(not all the time, but I gets it in) I make up for where she lacks….

    @Coco-Cause you a closet freak

  341. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 2:09 pm

    “@ Nick…I just realized I done slid into 5 months! That didn’t take long at all. Ish gotta stop! Big’s coming though!”

    @Jada: uh oh BIG!!! = TROUBA. lol

  342. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 2:10 pm

    “@Coco-Cause you a closet freak”

    @ Jac — One day I won’t have to stay in the closet…Lord, let that day come sooner than later please! In your Son’s name Amen.

  343. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 2:10 pm

    @Jada: uh oh BIG!!! = TROUBA. lol

    LOL…just remember not ALL trouble is bad trouble! *Le Sigh* This ole Celibacy Blues!

  344. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 2:12 pm

    “LOL…just remember not ALL trouble is bad trouble! *Le Sigh* This ole Celibacy Blues!”

    @Jada: Been there and got the t shirt!!!! Just don’t do something you’d regret later for the sake of horny.

    Sometimes the after effects hurt the heart, nahmean?

  345. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 2:13 pm

    @Jada: Been there and got the t shirt!!!! Just don’t do something you’d regret later for the sake of horny.

    Sometimes the after effects hurt the heart, nahmean?

    I thin I’ve hopped off the regret train. BIG = worth my while, heart, hand, and body.

  346. Coco
    April 3, 2009 | 2:14 pm

    “Sometimes the after effects hurt the heart, nahmean?”

    @Nic — Well said.

  347. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 2:17 pm

    “I thin I’ve hopped off the regret train. BIG = worth my while, heart, hand, and body.”

    @Jada: Got ya… if you got a good one, then by all means, unleash the dragon. LMAO.

    @Coco: thank u very much doll!

  348. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 2:20 pm

    “@Off-I’m liberaller with my panties than Coco is with hers….(”

    @ Action Jackson..please hand over your YaYa sweater..it needs to be cooled down.

  349. Nicki Sunshine
    April 3, 2009 | 2:21 pm

    “@ Action Jackson..please hand over your YaYa sweater..it needs to be cooled down.”

    I’m cracking UP!

  350. Jac
    April 3, 2009 | 2:23 pm

    ““@Off-I’m liberaller with my panties than Coco is with hers….(”

    @ Action Jackson..please hand over your YaYa sweater..it needs to be cooled down.”

    CBG-I’m straight. I like to be warm…plus it’s kinda cool outside. So I’ll be needing that sweater…

    My sweater brings all the boys to the yard…

  351. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 2:23 pm

    @ Action Jackson..please hand over your YaYa sweater..it needs to be cooled down.

    *Tears*

  352. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 2:38 pm

    “CBG-I’m straight. I like to be warm…plus it’s kinda cool outside. So I’ll be needing that sweater…

    My sweater brings all the boys to the yard…

    ***takes the YaYa crest off with the a seam ripper***

    okkk..now you can have the sweater…but its not YaYa approved with the crest.

  353. Damon
    April 3, 2009 | 2:49 pm

    @jada: This is mad late, but I saw you said you bought Slumdog. Make sure you give a report come Monday after you watched. I’ve seen it seven times (crazy, I know) and thinks it’s one of the best 20 movies I’ve ever seen.

  354. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 2:56 pm

    @Nicki
    “BJs is my fav, CoCo”

    Is that right?

    “There is a lunch menu for BJs? BJs after hours too? You and your homegirl were down with BJs last Friday?”

    LMAO…thanks for catching that

  355. No More
    April 3, 2009 | 2:58 pm

    My sweater brings all the boys to the yard…

    Or rather what fills your sweater out brings them to the yard.

  356. Jada
    April 3, 2009 | 2:59 pm

    @jada: This is mad late, but I saw you said you bought Slumdog. Make sure you give a report come Monday after you watched. I’ve seen it seven times (crazy, I know) and thinks it’s one of the best 20 movies I’ve ever seen.

    I sure will Damon! I’m expecting it to be good! Have a great weekend hon!

  357. thecomebackgirl
    April 3, 2009 | 3:00 pm

    “I’ve seen it seven times (crazy, I know) and thinks it’s one of the best 20 movies I’ve ever seen.”

    I think its the top 5 films of all time..cinematography wise its up there with Citizen Kane..which to me is and will always be number one. But Slumdog did some very ground breaking things even with the subtitles.

  358. Damon
    April 3, 2009 | 3:16 pm

    @cbg: I think it’s that high for me as well. I just really have to think it through with all of the others I feel like are up there.

    But you’re right. The cinematography is up there. And you’re wild’n out by mentioning Citizen Kane. lol. Kudos. I think I’ve watched that movie four or five times, too. A few times for a class. It is a great movie. lol.

  359. temps
    April 3, 2009 | 9:25 pm

    Show “Entourage” I am in the bizness and tv show theme no question : “The Wire” tryna keep the devil in the hole!!!!

  360. Hmm.
    April 5, 2009 | 2:45 pm

    Why did you stop commenting on s i n g l e b l a c k m a l e? I miss your funny insight!! The comment section just isn’t the same without you!

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