Girl Fight
Last week, I mentally noted four separate and interesting accusations of what appeared, by the victim author, to be pure and unadulterated social networking and blog ”hate” all spanning myspace, facebook, twitter and the blogeshere. All before mentioned “hate” leveled against the author/victim.
(btw. I still despise all iterations of the word “hate” in conversations where “envy” lurks around the corner. From the radio to Ray J, it is often overused in the most knee jerk ways possible. Or perhaps I owe hip-hop an apology for ”repurposing” a term that really is a synonym for the green eyed monster.)
The YaYa in me smiles because this time there was even an instance of a man proclaiming some version of “I’ve been hated on”. And most women are conditioned to believe that men don’t become unhinged regarding public opinion. Though the male version doesn’t dig down deep looking for the big “J”, jealousy, at least not publicly. But the whining is all the same in the guise of I really don’t give a dam!n. But of course he does, to drone on about it and over a series of days. It means he absolutely cares.
All of it bores me. Namely because no one is really THAT important.
not even me. lol.
Inherently people are self interested and focused. No one spends Most people don’t spend an inordinate about of time devising ways to be dismissive, “jealous”, conniving, and strategically destructive-plotting to bring people down. People act from and speak through their fears, insecurities, and lack of home training. Rude people are generally rude wherever they go, so why would one feel that because they are them, one should be afforded with the strike of “hater” lightening that is common courtesy, pleasantry and “you’re the greatest thing since sliced bread”.
Get Over Yourself.
Lastly, I usually double over in fits of laughter when people tell me that they don’t care what other people think about them.
That is the biggest crock of bullshyt I’ve ever heard and or read and the biggest lie people tell themselves. EVERYONE CARES ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK, and namely about them, their craft and associated opinions. People build blogs and social networks so that they can cultivate relationships with those who share CORE VALUES. People come back to said environments because they CARE ABOUT WHAT THE AUTHOR THINKS. Similarly, they also return because they believe you give a dam!n about their opinions also.
When I come up for air in my fits of laughter, I’m reminded that usually people who are the loudest in their “I don’t give a dam!n proclamation” actually spend alot of time obsessing about NOT being liked and not being able to please everyone.
Summer McStravick, writes:
Stop trying to please everyone, and simply please those with whom you create the most mutual benefit.
Is this new “urban” phenomenon of “hate” really real or is it some kind of weird obsessive self-congratulation? Do you believe that people are inherently good or are there those who mean you or others no good at all; ie “your haters”? How do you deal with your proverbial “haters”, both real and “imagined”?
I use “imagined” with lots of tongue and cheek since there’s one person who updated their social app addressing their “haters” at least 4 times last week. I had to rebuke my homekeys over the urge I got to reply that “no one was really thinking about you and your turmoil” that is only magnified the closer to home it actually gets. But Jesus was a fence and some typing restraint.
Let’s hope Jesus was some hindsight for the amount of time this person wasted on crafting the updates and editorial replies to the offenses in their veiled attempt to “not care” about what anyone thought.
the trick is in caring about what the “right” people think !
They even hated on Jesus… lol
People often confuse hating with having an opinion. Like if I say skinny jeans on men is gay, many kids will call me a “hater” when the fact is it’s just my opinion. I’m not jealous of your tight ass pants at all… lmao
“I use “imagined” with lots of tongue and cheek since there’s one person who updated their social app addressing their “haters” at least 4 times last week.”
I think its one of those “if u think it, it shall be” type of things. I can’t imagine why you would want SOOOO many haters because at that point I would assume you have no friends.
But its good to believe in yourself its just that instead of directing so much negativity energy towards folks don’t that probably don’t care maybe you could use the energy to positively pump yourself up.
update your social app with “im so fabulous” or “dang I look good” ect…..
but sayin u have so many haters is a bit childish these days. I like to use the word on occasion but NOT that much.
I think it’s a symptom of living in such a self-obsessed society to think that people are out to get you, or thinking about you like that.
It’s also about being so insecure that you’re unable to handle criticism, and sometimes that just means brushing off your shoulders and moving on.
I, a really long time ago, realized that not everyone is going to like and I’m not going to like everyone, such is the world and it don’y bother me none. Ask me when was the last time I spent more than a couple of minutes worried about a supposed “hater”… I truly do not remember.
And I agree with Dave – being labeled a hater for expressing an opinion says more about the sheep mentality of the labeler than anything else.
The word ‘hater’ should be clubbed, shot execution style, and buried in the murkey depths of hell, never to be uttered again, and any variations thereof.
Why does disagreeing with ‘popular’ opinion always have to be deduced to hating? Why do people believe they have haters just because there are some who dare to have, as Dave said, a difference of opinion?
Oftentimes it’s easier to dismiss others as just wrong instead of taking a moment to self-reflect and even consider that perhaps their point is valid. Thus a hater is born. It’s also easier, and a bit narcissistic, to believe that someone cares enough about you to ‘hate’ you. I’m pretty sure most people have more pressing issues. Ehhh…I’m over the whole hating phenomena.
Morning Treehouse!
Morning beloveds
Hating is a term thrown around loosely and over used more then a 2 dollar whore.
hate can be translated into : dislike, disdain, jealously, envy, or an unpopular opinion.
If I say that it is in my opinio that Lil’Wayne is a homosexual, then im hating. When in all reality that’s just how i feel.
Isn’t the point of a blog forum to create a space where people with differences in opinions can gather to reflect?
Good Morning,
I don’t have any haters (maybe I am naive?) but there are no enemies that I know of… I was never that intimidating, OVERLY pretty chick who got picked out bc “She thinks she’s cute.” That phrase right thurrr, I can’t stand… When I hear this, I want to say, no boo, YOU think she is cute and it’s hurting your self esteem. lol
I was just telling my homegirl last night how I hate the word hater.. in bible study last week (my regular pastor wasn’t preaching) and this one preached about needing your ‘haters.’ It made me cringe er’ time he used that word.
Like you said, some people are hateful and they treat everybody like that… so you are nothing special.
Good morning y’all…..
Yeah ummm I’m still trying to recoup from my weekend. So my thinking cap yet is not on as of yet.. But when I can get out this daze I will surely throw in my 2 cents on the topic at hand.
Good Morning Everyone,
Comeback I agree with you 100%. I am so tired of hearing people called a hater if they don’t agree with you. Hater=Jealous. Thats it. Like Super Dave said if I say I don’t like tight jeans I am not saying I don’t like them because deep down inside I want to wear tight jeans and can’t. No, I don’t like tight jeans.
I am also tired of women saying they are being hated on. I’ve noticed that the more issues a woman has the more she is so called hated on. I think some people want to be hated on because it makes them feel important. Guess what? No one cares about you or what you do. Weakest and lamest mofos swear somebody is jealous of them. You are not worth hating on.
“Weakest and lamest mofos swear somebody is jealous of them.”
That is so true, people who really have it going on, who in theory would be the ones hated on spend not a single moment worried about this crap.
@ Dave..
“People often confuse hating with having an opinion. Like if I say skinny jeans on men is gay, many kids will call me a “hater” when the fact is it’s just my opinion. I’m not jealous of your tight ass pants at all… lmao
”
I’ve seen some men..the operative word is “SOME” men carry off skinny jeans. And they are for men with no @zz. I sometimes wonder if men get jealous though?
@ Jada
“Oftentimes it’s easier to dismiss others as just wrong instead of taking a moment to self-reflect and even consider that perhaps their point is valid. Thus a hater is born. It’s also easier, and a bit narcissistic, to believe that someone cares enough about you to ‘hate’ you. I’m pretty sure most people have more pressing ”
agree here too..
@ Sunny
“I don’t have any haters (maybe I am naive?) but there are no enemies that I know of… I was never that intimidating, OVERLY pretty chick who got picked out bc “She thinks she’s cute.” That phrase right thurrr, I can’t stand… When I hear this, I want to say, no boo, YOU think she is cute and it’s hurting your self esteem. lol”
I don’t know maybe I do, maybe I don’t. But I always believed that it wasn’t really about me. If there is someone that geniually doesn’t like me..then its more about THEM and what I represent. And usually what said person is seen is totally warped, ie anot having problems, or always overjoyed, tons of dates or male attention etc..
@ Hershey’s “But its good to believe in yourself its just that instead of directing so much negativity energy towards folks don’t that probably don’t care ”
I totally agree here.
@ Hummy
“Thats it. Like Super Dave said if I say I don’t like tight jeans I am not saying I don’t like them because deep down inside I want to wear tight jeans and can’t. No, I don’t like tight jeans.
”
Hey but sometimes lets face..men do get “mad”..i posed this up top. Skinny jeans work on SOME men LOL..stop being mad son!!! lol j/k.
“If there is someone that geniually doesn’t like me..then its more about THEM and what I represent. And usually what said person represents is warped, ie as seen as not having problems, or always overjoyed…usually the “hater” has a really warped view of their hatee.”
Exactly!!!!! I can’t see why anyone would hate you though gal.
I don’t think i have anyone that dislikes me though LOL..
**inflating my ego**
who could possibly not like me???
sike let me stop.
hmmm…my theory on “hating”
If you’re doing what you’re supposed to be doing, your energy should overpower the “hating”, and you shouldn’t even recognize it. To put it simply;
I don’t think the sun worries about shadows.
- a.i.
“I don’t think the sun worries about shadows.”
OKKK
I don’t think the sun worries about shadows.
Nods head.
“Most people don’t spend an inordinate about of time devising ways to be dismissive, “jealous”, conniving, and strategically destructive-plotting to bring people down.”
Eh…but alot do. Why is the word jealous in quotations? People get jealous all the time. I kinda get what you’re saying, but why take the onus of hating from the hater? There are many people who thrive off of negativity, and who genuinely can’t stand to see the improvement of others. Regardless of where it stems from, (insecurity, fear, etc.) it’s still “hating.”
BTW, I also despise that term. It’s like the new millinnium “whoomp there it is”…so overused and cliche.
“It’s like the new millinnium “whoomp there it is”…”
Dead. LMAO.
Do men get jealous? I think we do, as much as we deny it. It’s usually over women or material things, like I wish I had his car or his woman. I can’t see hating another dude because of what he has. It should serve as motivation to do better.
When I was young my cousin pulled up in a brand new Escalade. I didn’t hate him but I was jealous as hell. It only motivated me to get like him.
Hmm…I have a hater in my family. It’s kinda sad that it has to be this way but she hates on everybody. I think it’s a warped form of non self esteem. Rather low self esteem in fact who gives a f*ck about you and your bougie arse.
“. I think it’s a warped form of non self esteem”
I think u are exactly right….
How was everyone’s weekend?
Good morning Treehouse,
Comeback I agree with your post and most of the comments left.
Just because someone disagrees doesn’t mean they are a hater.
I love blogging. I love visiting certain blogs because of the diverse opinions. It opens your mind up to a new way of thinking.
Whether we say it or not, we all like to be validated in some form or fashion.
@ Nick
My weekend was off the chains! My foot is still hurting and brusied from being stomped on by a hysterical, stiletto wearing, jaggle head heffa. I wish I had caught up to her!
@Jada
Wow you didn’t tell me about that. I hope you are okay
“My weekend was off the chains! My foot is still hurting and brusied from being stomped on by a hysterical, stiletto wearing, jaggle head heffa. I wish I had caught up to her!”
What the effe? What happened girl?
@Super Dave
“When I was young my cousin pulled up in a brand new Escalade. I didn’t hate him but I was jealous as hell. It only motivated me to get like him.”
In this situation you envied your cousin you weren’t jealous. If you were jealous you would have resented your cousin for buying the Escalade. Now if you wish your cousin didn’t have it then you were really envious.
@Jada
“My weekend was off the chains! My foot is still hurting and brusied from being stomped on by a hysterical, stiletto wearing, jaggle head heffa. I wish I had caught up to her!”
Are you still fighting at the club?
“Are you still fighting at the club?”
LOL. STOPPIT.
@Jada
Wow you didn’t tell me about that. I hope you are okay.
I’mma be good Jac. Girl there was all manner of foolishness going on this weekend.
What the effe? What happened girl?
I was at my friend’s club with the male twin. We went to the comedy show they hold there every Saturday and the lil after party. Well apparently someone rented the club for the afterparty. I was wondering why it went from a grown and sexy type thing to a college kid party because generally the party that ensued is not at all the type of crowd they market or cater to.
So I was standing up front with the twin while we waited for some of his friends to join us. All of a sudden we hear fight fight and a herd of heffas ran for the door!
So I run back into the club to help. I don’t know what the hell I thought I was going to do, but that was my boys club and I couldn’t just let them tear it up. So I end up by the bar and by this time all these lil mini fights had popped off. I was about to pick up a bar stool when this jaggle head backed up on me screaming on my d@mn foot! I tried to push her off…but she and a big girl backed up more…this time she stepped on me and broke the skin and a sista went down! By the time I was helped up she had moved and I couldn’t find her.
One time a woman bumped into me and made me spill my drink I fought her on Bourbon St. Jaci will whoop @$$ at every possible instance please and thank you….
Now that I think about it I need to step off Bourbon … I always end up fighting some stupid b!tch down there…and that means men too
Are you still fighting at the club?
Indirectly Humster. Trust me…for the type of club I was in…I normallt would never have suspected something like that would happen. But when the lil teeny bopper, college wanna be thug @sses started pouring in I got a serious bad feeling! I actually wanted to leave but the twin was determined to chill and have a good time as he didn’t do anything the night before. And I rode with him.
Now that I think about it I need to step off Bourbon … I always end up fighting some stupid b!tch down there…and that means men too.
Umm yeah…I’mma need you to stay ya lil fiesty self off od Bourbon.
@Jay Boogie: WOW.. U are a little woman too. I hope u are okay
@jaci: U be fightin girl? lol.. I cannot fathom it!!!
OOOOOH!
Jada-I feel ’bout 20-11 ways about that…hmph…I’d have got up bleeding foot and whooped everybody’s arse…
Why am I feeling extra spunky today?
Anyone else finish Akua’s book?
Yaw, I hung out with the guy who showed me pictures of the PENTI. LMAO. Surprisingly, I had a great time tho.
Jada boo im so sorry about your foot!! I am dyin at u about to throw a bar stool! you are officially off the jump rope!
LOL…thanks ladies!
I just felt bad some stupid ish had to go down in my boys club. Black folks can’t have ish for dumb @ss NIGGERS!
@Nicki
“Yaw, I hung out with the guy who showed me pictures of the PENTI. LMAO. Surprisingly, I had a great time tho.”
I’m sure you had a great time after you saw his pics. So a dude can give a woman pics of his schlong and still hang out with her. Maybe I’m doing something wrong by not taking pics.
“I just felt bad some stupid ish had to go down in my boys club. Black folks can’t have ish for dumb @ss NIGGERS!”
Exactly!
When I woke up this morning, I heard on the news that four folks got shot at a club at 2am
“I’m sure you had a great time after you saw his pics. So a dude can give a woman pics of his schlong and still hang out with her. Maybe I’m doing something wrong by not taking pics.”
LOL.. it’s not that simple. IT was Saturday morning and GORGEOUS outside. I’d been up early to get my license and registration renewed.. he called and said why don’t u come spend the day with me.. I had no excuse, so I went.
U are doing right.. he is just the exception, I guess
And additonally, he’s not in the running, although he is s3xy and honest as FOCK… but I know too much about him.
He’s been friend zoned.
I’m sure you had a great time after you saw his pics. So a dude can give a woman pics of his schlong and still hang out with her. Maybe I’m doing something wrong by not taking pics.
Don’t you dare Hummy!
And additonally, he’s not in the running, although he is s3xy and honest as FOCK… but I know too much about him.
He’s been friend zoned.
Besides the unsolicited pics…what put him in the friend zone?
“Besides the unsolicited pics…what put him in the friend zone?”
2. His baby is only 8 months. Although him and the baby mama were never together, they were just banging. The only thing that is keeping her from being his woman is that she’s not satisfying him sexually basically. Methinks: that is not a valid reason, that can be improved. Oh, and he said she doesn’t have enough life experience. He will be 30 this week, she’s only 24/25.
3. He told me initially he’s not interested in a relationship.
That’s about it, I think.
@Jada: Oh, and he reminds me of my ex beau, now buddy who did Karate chops on my heart!
LOL @ Karate Chops Nick!
Understood…he needs to get himself together.
“LOL @ Karate Chops Nick!
Understood…he needs to get himself together.”
Exactly… I’ll hang out with him.. that’s it. LOL. I helped him put his sound system together (he’s new to the state)… and then we went to the park and had pizza.
@ Just Stop It
““Most people don’t spend an inordinate about of time devising ways to be dismissive, “jealous”, conniving, and strategically destructive-plotting to bring people down.”
Eh…but alot do. Why is the word jealous in quotations? People get jealous all the time. I kinda get what you’re saying, but why take the onus of hating from the hater? There are many people who thrive off of negativity, and who genuinely can’t stand to see the improvement of others. Regardless of where it stems from, (insecurity, fear, etc.) it’s still “hating.”
BTW, I also despise that term. It’s like the new millinnium “whoomp there it is”…so overused and cliche.
”
I put jealousy in quotes because I don’t think that people are intentionally destructive or envious witihout other things going on driving it. Like I wrote to Sunny, people sometimes “hate” people with no idea about who and what there life is all about. Its only the perception that they resent. Or what they THINK the person embodies. On some level the jealousy is no realer than the ACTUAL person they hate..
does that make sense?
@ Why Why
Thats deep.
“How was everyone’s weekend?”
Okay y’all so I’m over here hurting like for real…. Cause I’m so freaking tired…
My aunt’s basement party didn’t end until 3 in the morning on Fri and then I went home and was up talkin wit my parents for another hour. Woke up Sat morning at 8 cuz I had to drop my car off the get serviced. Then went and got fitted for my bridesmaids dress. And I’m gonna need for David’s Bridal to come up with a ethnic line because my dress is a freakin 10 thanks to my “girls”….. Then had to go help decorate for the party Sat….. That night that party was crackin and it didn’t stop until close to 3:30… Got in the bed at like 5…
I am over here tired!!! I realized I can’t hang with the old folks… They can party all night for two nights in a row if they want too. Next time it will just be without me…lol
Whether we say it or not, we all like to be validated in some form or fashion.
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@ Shelia..EXACTLY…i don’t care what anybody says. we all care what people think about us. In the clothes we wear, the things we write, the careers we are in. On some level we live for validation. And thats ok. As the quote states above, the problem is when we think EVERYONE will do it. And thats just not how it goes.
“I am over here tired!!! I realized I can’t hang with the old folks… They can party all night for two nights in a row if they want too. Next time it will just be without me…lol”
LMAO. Not unable to hang with the oldies! It sounds like you had fun though.
LMAO. Not unable to hang with the oldies! It sounds like you had fun though.
@Nick… I did have a ball.. On Fri. night it was just me and one of my cousins holdin it down for the 34 and under crowd…. But on Sat I recruited some youngins so it wouldn’t be just us again….
The only bad thing that happened. Was this man came up to me like you have a beautiful breasts on Sat night. And he lifted up to his hands. I don’t know if he wanted to touch or was going to point.. But I politely moved his hands and turned the other way so that my back would face him…. I was embarrassed and pissed. But my daddy was right next to me and I didn’t want him to realized what had happened.
“The only bad thing that happened. Was this man came up to me like you have a beautiful breasts on Sat night. And he lifted up to his hands. I don’t know if he wanted to touch or was going to point”
What the EFFE??? I promise men lose their minds… O.M.G. That is soo nasty.
I was told that bc of my lips I was genetically predisposed to give head.
And that I had a sexy pie face.
What the effe, 80s? LMAO
Dang 80’s you ahd a lot going on this weekend didn’t ya? I would have loved to be in a basement party. I see that in the movies and wished people really still did that today.
I want a basement party like in the Sean Paul Get Busy video
@ Nick.. What the heck is a sexy pie face????
Girl, I have luscious lips too so I have been disrespected many times as a result of my lips…Jerks!!!!
@Jada… They were partyin for real in the basement… At one point they were chanting.. The roof, the roof, the roof is on fire.. We don’t need no water let the mf’er burn…lol And they were playin all the old jam’s… My aunt’s fav song of the moment is dougie Fresh the show… So they kept that in rotation… But them old folks was getting it droppin it and everything.
I was down there crackin up like wait til I tell people I was partyin’ with their momma’s & daddy’s!!!
Hi 80s..weekend sounds fun.
I added a roster participant. I think the weather is gonna have me starting an official team.
“@ Nick.. What the heck is a sexy pie face????
Girl, I have luscious lips too so I have been disrespected many times as a result of my lips…Jerks!!!! ”
Girl, he said it was like a circle. I explained to him that I know what people with pie faces look like and I don’t have one. He never got it… but I made sure I told him it was not a compliment although he insisted that he loves my face and intended it to be.
CBG: What did you do on this “fun” weekend u had?
The only bad thing that happened. Was this man came up to me like you have a beautiful breasts on Sat night. And he lifted up to his hands. I don’t know if he wanted to touch or was going to point.. But I politely moved his hands and turned the other way so that my back would face him…. I was embarrassed and pissed.
Ughhhh…just ughhhh! WTF is wrong with people…like how you just put your hands on people unwarranted! BAD FORM!!!
I think the core gist of this post completely went over my head.
But I trust my Yaya inner tingly sense that there has been some “funny things” going on in the intrawebs that have upset my darling ComeBack girl.
I don’t think I have “haters” (what does it mean really?). At least, I don’t know of any. I have people whom I have some disagreements and misunderstandings with, but that’s normal life.
I certainly do care about what the “right” people think. Those people will be the parental unit (especially the father figure), the triumvate of sisters (I’m supposed to be their example, lawd have mercy!), the fiance, my boss and my mutual funds manager. If any of those people say be careful, I tend to listen .
How was the week-end for you guys?
I added a roster participant. I think the weather is gonna have me starting an official team.
Alright now!
Hey. Ms. Lovely.. my weekend was lovely… had a kinda date and went to a bbq late Saturday…
The weather put me in one heckuva mood.
CBG-Tell us about this participant! Does he have stats?
*Singing*
And tell me
That we belong together
Dress it up
With the trappings of love
I’ll be capitivated
I’ll hang from your lips
Instead of the gallows
Of heartache that hangs from above
And I’ll be your crying shoulder
I’ll be love suiced
And I’ll be better when I’m older
I’ll be the greatest fan of your life
*End Singing*
How do Lovely?
Jada-I love love love that song…Edwin somebody or the other!
Jada-I love love love that song…Edwin somebody or the other!
Edwin Mccain
Me too Jac…it’s so beautiful. Reminds me of Dawson Creek too! LOL!
Thank you! I could not think of his name! Yes it does too…My fave lines are when he talks about rain falling on the rooftop…so romantical!
Can I say one of my fantasy type things has been to be in NoLA while it’s raining, windows open, jazz playing drinking wine and reading on a Saturday…all alone, but Sunday…so different that being lazy in bed getting in that “boo love” til church time of course!
Thank you! I could not think of his name! Yes it does too…My fave lines are when he talks about rain falling on the rooftop…so romantical!
And rain falls
Angry on the tin roof
As we lie awake in our bed
Romantical indeed! That’s my fave part too Jac!
Can I say one of my fantasy type things has been to be in NoLA while it’s raining, windows open, jazz playing drinking wine and reading on a Saturday…all alone, but Sunday…so different that being lazy in bed getting in that “boo love” til church time of course!
I might have to steal this for myself. Me likey. I’d need some pulp free oj or sum though cause I don’t like wine.
CBG: LOVIN’ this pic of Amber Rose.
http://bossip.com/90267/these-two-again-2/amber-rose-kanye-wea8c20a/
Thank you! I could not think of his name! Yes it does too…My fave lines are when he talks about rain falling on the rooftop…so romantical!
And rain falls
Angry on the tin roof
As we lie awake in our bed
Romantical indeed! That’s my fave part too Jac!
Can I say one of my fantasy type things has been to be in NoLA while it’s raining, windows open, jazz playing drinking wine and reading on a Saturday…all alone, but Sunday…so different that being lazy in bed getting in that “boo love” til church time of course!
I might have to steal this for myself. Me likey. I’d need some pulp free oj or sum though cause I don’t like wine.
Fabulousness:
http://bossip.com/90267/these-two-again-2/amber-rose-kanye-wea8c20a/
oops. I didn’t mean to post that again.
Me either Nick. It appeared as if my comment didn’t post though.
@ Lovely
“I think the core gist of this post completely went over my head.
But I trust my Yaya inner tingly sense that there has been some “funny things” going on in the intrawebs that have upset my darling ComeBack girl.
”
Hi Lovely..no nothing has upset me at all. Just commenting on trend I witnessed last week. The just of this post??? Is prolly all over the place LOL..generally Im saying that sometimes people are infactuated with being “hated” , it gives them a bizarre self-importance. Secondly, I’m amused by these same people’s proclamation of not caring about other people and their opinion of them. People DO care about what people think. Its just that sometimes people are unable to decipher who and what to care about.
@ Jac/Sunny…i went out..i dunno i think it was the weather..I also had a partial spring unvieling. And I’ve given myself a mini-make over..and the fast is working. I think its like a combination of all that..increased levels of “what i got is hot” and men “buying it”.
This is off-topic but I have a question for everyone. I am thinking about using Firefox permanently instead of on again off again. Are there any downsides to using Firefox over Internet Explorer?
Doing alright. Work’s kicking my arse.
My week-end was rather mundane… workout, studying, phone, catchin’ up on Tivo, and food. Lots of food.
I am on a self-imposed “discipline” track… and I (kinda) like it.
This is off-topic but I have a question for everyone. I am thinking about using Firefox permanently instead of on again off again. Are there any downsides to using Firefox over Internet Explorer?
Sorry Humster I can’t help. I still use ie all day everyday. But my baby sis swears by firefox. Says it’s faster.
This is off-topic but I have a question for everyone. I am thinking about using Firefox permanently instead of on again off again. Are there any downsides to using Firefox over Internet Explorer?
None. After using Firefox for the past few years I dont even know how I did without. Especially if you grab a few of the add-ons and extensions.
“Are there any downsides to using Firefox over Internet Explorer?”
I don’t think so… my IT buddy claims it’s a lot better.
@Humble
“This is off-topic but I have a question for everyone. I am thinking about using Firefox permanently instead of on again off again. Are there any downsides to using Firefox over Internet Explorer?”
Not that I know of… Try it permanently for a couple of weeks and see if you have any problems.
p.s: google chrome is not bad either.
p.p.s: I remember you asked me where I was from last week and I never got the chance to reply. I am from a small country in West Africa.
@CBG,
“@ Jac/Sunny…i went out..i dunno i think it was the weather..I also had a partial spring unvieling. And I’ve given myself a mini-make over..and the fast is working. I think its like a combination of all that..increased levels of “what i got is hot” and men “buying it”.”
I’m curious darling… what is usually the timeline from someone to make it from the roster to frontliner to subsequent boyfriend? Are there any specifics you’re looking for? (pardon me if you’ve already talked about this ad nauseam, I’m a newbie
)
I like firefox too….tons of things you can do with social apps that you cant do with IE.
“I also had a partial spring unvieling. And I’ve given myself a mini-make over..and the fast is working. I think its like a combination of all that..increased levels of “what i got is hot” and men “buying it”.””
OKKK. U sound like me.
“what is usually the timeline from someone to make it from the roster to frontliner to subsequent boyfriend? Are there any specifics you’re looking for?”
I’m pretty willy nilly with the dating and roster stuff. I’m new with it.
@ Jac/Sunny…i went out..i dunno i think it was the weather..I also had a partial spring unvieling. And I’ve given myself a mini-make over..and the fast is working. I think its like a combination of all that..increased levels of “what i got is hot” and men “buying it”.
Mini make over? What did you do CBG? I am having problems with the fast. I dunno why but it’s like I cannot do it and I just..argh I dunno I bought everything…but I get caught up in being out…I need to be home more
“I’m curious darling… what is usually the timeline from someone to make it from the roster to frontliner to subsequent boyfriend? Are there any specifics you’re looking for? (pardon me if you’ve already talked about this ad nauseam, I’m a newbie )
”
@ Lovely…I’ll discuss in detail tomorrow…but right now im just taking it extra slow. Trying to do things alittle differently than I’ve done in the past. I’m asking more questions to. Observing behavior. And not “falling in love” with pixie and what he isn’t…Everyone’s on “probation” until the “dust settles”. I wanna know that when a dude gets really comfortable with me..that I still like what i see.
you know after the honeymoon. Sometimes i get really disgusted with the after affects of pixie..like “this is who i really liked..YUCK”..so far a couple of people are lasting the after effects.
@ Sunny “OKKK.”
is o-k-k-k new???..you watching too many videos LOL..
“is o-k-k-k new???..you watching too many videos LOL..”
LMAO.. Nope, I say it in real life all thee time. It’s new to the blog though. lol
What did you do on your mini makeover?
@lovely: I’m pretty simple.
If he is on the roster, I’m feeling him..
All he has to do to get upgraded, is want to build a commited future with me.
Gotcha CBG.
But meanwhile do you constantly add to the roster as well? Does it get demanding?
I guess I’ll have to wait for tomorrow’s installment.
Eeeek! Nic I love the pic! So you!
Ok ok …I am really wondering what it is…I just found out that I am dating someone I dated before and I’m like how long do we have to do this and I am really really feeling the whole idea of just laughing and talking then falling in love…nothing pushed, pressed, or rushed…purely organics…
CBG-I SAID WHAT ARE HIS STATS
“I think its like a combination of all that..increased levels of “what i got is hot” and men “buying it”.”
Is there a money back guarantee if they buy it?
@Lovely Paradox
“I remember you asked me where I was from last week and I never got the chance to reply. I am from a small country in West Africa. ”
I forgot that I asked you that. What country are you from?
Hi everyone. Just peeking in. Hope everyone had a fabulous weekend!
@Jac: Is it me blowing bubbles, cause I don’t see it yet…
@Daisy, hey chica!!!
My comments are being gulped and lost in Internet purgatory.
Hi Daisy. Hi Lovely…I never spoke to you before I need to mind my manners.
“CBG-I SAID WHAT ARE HIS STATS
”
32-6′1-im not good with guy’s weight and ive never asked.
@Humble
“I forgot that I asked you that. What country are you from?”
Cote d’Ivoire. Right next to Ghana. (that’s where your father is from, right?) Have you ever been?
” am really really feeling the whole idea of just laughing and talking then falling in love…nothing pushed, pressed, or rushed…purely organics…”
AMEN!
“I’ll discuss in detail tomorrow…but right now im just taking it extra slow. Trying to do things alittle differently than I’ve done in the past. I’m asking more questions to. Observing behavior. And not “falling in love” with pixie and what he isn’t…Everyone’s on “probation” until the “dust settles”. I wanna know that when a dude gets really comfortable with me..that I still like what i see.
you know after the honeymoon. Sometimes i get really disgusted with the after affects of pixie..like “this is who i really liked..YUCK”..so far a couple of people are lasting the after effects.”
You didn’t mention how you observe how long they can set themselves on fire, skydive without a parachute, and sleep in a bed of scorpions before they prove themselves worthy.
LOL. Jac, I see the pic now.
Hi Jaci!
’tis ok. Being comfortable and easy is part of the treehouse rule book, I’ll hope.
@ Lovely ..nothing is in spam!!!
@ Jac…re: Daniels..why dont you start by giving a few things up. Its a cold turkey proposition. Like start with sodas, or sweets or bread. Maybe you shouldn’t cut everything at once. Also are you in some type of movement everyday?
“You didn’t mention how you observe how long they can set themselves on fire, skydive without a parachute, and sleep in a bed of scorpions before they prove themselves worthy.”
Oh LAWD. LMAO.. set themselves on fire? Humble u are nuts!
lol@Humble. CBG, I see your tactics are not being approved of by the Yoyo’s.
@Nicki,
)
So anybody fun/interesting in the roster right now? (except for schlong dude? because you know you like that boy.
@CBG-Ok he sounds nice…what does he do? And re: Daniels…I am giving up sodas already…it isn’t so bad…the next thing is I am going to go for sugar free everything…I don’t really eat a lot of bread…right now I am about to eat some cabbage and sweet potatoes…then later okra, tomatoes and corn…see I can do it but as soon as I leave the house I’ll get a hot dog…I need to start taking carrots with me …and yes I go walking….
@Hummy-a bed of scorpions LOL!
@Lovely-is that your e-mail I got?
“Nicki,
So anybody fun/interesting in the roster right now? (except for schlong dude? because you know you like that boy. )”
Lovely: I love you. LMAO.. U pegged me.. I am feeling him bc he’s the wrong guy.. there’s attraction there. But if I fall for it, it’s my own dayum fault.
I have this other guy on the roster… he’s a Kappa. I thought he was gay initially but he’s not. But we have a good chemistry too.
Then there is the guy in Atlanta.. he keeps me laughing but who the hell wants to laugh all the time… Like I can’t tell him anything serious.
How about you?
“You didn’t mention how you observe how long they can set themselves on fire, skydive without a parachute, and sleep in a bed of scorpions before they prove themselves worthy.
”
@ Hummy I don’t really have any set rules persay..actually im finding that some of my rules were set up to buffer me from bullshyt and people i didn’t actually like…all rules are out the window EXCEPT THE 90 day-se!x one.
@Lovely Paradox
“Cote d’Ivoire. Right next to Ghana. (that’s where your father is from, right?) Have you ever been?”
Yes that is where my father is from and no I have never been there before. I want to go too. I have a lot of family members that I have never met and family members I have only talked to on the phone.
CBG-I am glad you got rid of some of those rules. I think you needed that…spring forth! be free!
Sunny-Tell me about the Kapster
@Nicki,
I don’t think you’re feeling him solely because he’s the wrong guy. You’re feeling him because he has those qualities you like in a guy. Now, why do you like those particular qualities is another thing. But I like that you know what to expect. Sometimes we need to do those mistakes and move on.
Why did u think the Kappa dude was gay? I remember you mentionning the “madea hands”. Lol! Chemistry is great and I know you will check him out.
Funny, the Atlanta guy sounds good to me (I have those weird vibes don’t ask!)… Try to find out why he’s being such a comic all the time (it often hides lots of insecurities or they feel like they won’t be liked otherwise).
Me? Fiance lives far, far away so I am trying my darndest to be a good girl. When the world knows you’ve (finally) decided to settle down, all the worms come out of the woodwork. Sheesh!
@Humble,
You need to visit. My (paternal) grandparents are from there, and I used to spend many a summer there, it’s lovely.
@CBG, sorry dear. Turns out it was my own PC acting a fool.
Lovely-You’re engaged? I didn’t know that. When’s the wedding?
“Sunny-Tell me about the Kapster”
“Why did u think the Kappa dude was gay? I remember you mentionning the “madea hands”. Lol! Chemistry is great and I know you will check him out.”
@Lovely and Jaci: Kappa is the one with the madea hands.. lol.. and he does really good women impressions, so I was nervous.. but we talk every day, a couple of times a day.. and we do this thing called RANDOMS, where we ask eachother ANY random question we want. Nothing is too personal. He is a gentleman and he hasn’t had sex in over a year and five months. he said he’s wiating bc he knows how we women get after s3x. He says the right things… but it’s a lil scary bc we click so well.
” Now, why do you like those particular qualities is another thing. But I like that you know what to expect. Sometimes we need to do those mistakes and move on. ”
Now this wrong guy is so daggone fine that I can’t fathom… plus I can also be myself with him.. we play around a lot and talk.. plus he’s an open book.. don’t ask him anything and think he won’t answer. lol. Plus he never kissed my lips.. he kissed my forehead and kinda my back.. nothing s3xual… just kinda sweet. But it’s in the back of my mind.. this guy wants s3x, he sent u D pics for crying out loud.
“Funny, the Atlanta guy sounds good to me (I have those weird vibes don’t ask!)… Try to find out why he’s being such a comic all the time (it often hides lots of insecurities or they feel like they won’t be liked otherwise).”
YES girl. he is always sending me funny stories or calling me to tell me somethign funny.. but he’s handsome as hell. He has full custody of his daughter and she is his heart. But he can balance, which is good. Most of our conversations are light.
“Me? Fiance lives far, far away so I am trying my darndest to be a good girl. When the world knows you’ve (finally) decided to settle down, all the worms come out of the woodwork. Sheesh! ”
Congratulations on the engagement LOVELY!!!! Lawd knows when u get handcuffed, thats when they start coming out. (I heard that is bc the “hunger” in your eyes disappears)
“Congratulations on the engagement LOVELY!!!! Lawd knows when u get handcuffed, thats when they start coming out. (I heard that is bc the “hunger” in your eyes disappears)”
On that last part…what kinda fyckery? That’s nuts…I can’t say that I have that hunger for everyone. In fact, I don’t think but one person can see that certain hunger in my eyes.
“In fact, I don’t think but one person can see that certain hunger in my eyes.”
Why am I singing “Hungry Eyes”?
@Jaci,
Summer or December next year… depends on when I finish thid daggone MBA.
The main reason there will always be people crying about haters is because people love talking about their favorite subject. Themselves.
CBG: “That is the biggest crock of bullshyt I’ve ever heard and or read and the biggest lie people tell themselves. EVERYONE CARES ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK….”
I was about to reply to that until I read “the trick is in caring about what the “right” people think !” Good clarification. I truly don’t give two squirts of p!$$ about what the average person thinks about me because most people are idiots. Except for my immediate family and inner circle of friends, I don’t care about what people think about me. “Hate” me if you like. Chances are while you’re consumed with me, I don’t even notice you have an issue.
And I officially hated the word hater for the past five years.
@Hugh Jazz
” two squirts of p!$$”
This made me lmbao for real.
For some reason I singing “Chocolate Legs”….
@Lovely-Ok…well you gotta invite the Treehouse! We gonna have to have drinks before you’re off the market.
Sunny: “he…kinda my back.. nothing s3xual”
Mildly curious, how does someone kiss your back in a non-s3xual manner?
“Sunny: “he…kinda my back.. nothing s3xual”
Mildly curious, how does someone kiss your back in a non-s3xual manner?”
No saliva.. no slow action… nothing really sensual.. just a quick peck, like how u would kiss a forehead.
Oh, and it was the top of my back, where my tattoo was… he was just standing behind me.
Nic-if someone kisses close to my back it’s going to be on like donkey kong for real…he wouldn’t even have to worry about it because i would give him the bizness.
“Nic-if someone kisses close to my back it’s going to be on like donkey kong for real…he wouldn’t even have to worry about it because i would give him the bizness.”
LMAO.. I think due to my lack of s3xual activity, my girl is laying low… lol. it did NOTHING for the kid. lol.. It touched my heart a lil but it didn’t waker “her” up. THANK GOD
@Jaci,
Most def… Y’all will have to travel to the motherland but I’m willing to host ya.
@Sunny, yes darling do explain how we kiss in the back in a nonchexual manner…
“No saliva.. no slow action… nothing really sensual.. just a quick peck, like how u would kiss a forehead. Oh, and it was the top of my back, where my tattoo was… he was just standing behind me.”
I’ll take your word for it. I just know a woman’s back is extremely sensitive. Back kissing is a precursor to a happy ending.
@Lovely,
Which part of the motherland? Cote d’Ivoire? I’m down for it or any other part of it. Is the financier I mean fiance there? Or are you there? Where the fyck are you?
And how did you make that smile?
@ Nick
I love the forehead kiss. That ish is so endearing.
@Hugh-You know too damned much. How is it that you manage to know something about all of a woman’s sensual spots…in that case tell me dear heart, what is your spot (so should we need to attack to calm you we can?)
“I’ll take your word for it. I just know a woman’s back is extremely sensitive. Back kissing is a precursor to a happy ending.”
@Hugh: Under past circumstances, he would’ve gotten the bizness. Make no mistake.
“@Sunny, yes darling do explain how we kiss in the back in a nonchexual manner… ”
lol. I did
“@ Nick
I love the forehead kiss. That ish is so endearing.”
@Jay Boogie: I like it too… it’s male dominance…
Just like I got some kinda feeling when helping him hook up stuff…
I’m kinda strange sometimes.
Jaci: @Hugh-You know too damned much. How is it that you manage to know something about all of a woman’s sensual spots…in that case tell me dear heart, what is your spot (so should we need to attack to calm you we can?)
Experience. Especially when it starts at the nape of the neck and concludes at the small of the lower back.
In response to your second question, I plead the fifth.
“Experience. Especially when it starts at the nape of the neck and concludes at the small of the lower back.”
LOL.. He ain’t do all of that Hugh.
@Jaci
I live in Houston now… Might move permanently next year. He moved back a couple of years ago (this is a whole story in itself) but my folks live home and that’s where the wedding will take place. But seriously, that could be a cool trip for the treehouse girls who want to visit Africa. I have a couple of girlfriends who are already making the trip.
@Hugh-I already have some ideas about you buddy…don’t make me say it. I know what to do to get your butt reference…well I won’t say what to reference.
@Lovely-Oh ok..that sounds nice. I do want to visit Africa I think it would be a positive experience.
Vanilla Sky had a barbeque this weekend and there was this Asian dj there.. mind u, he is the best dj I’ve ever heard in this city…
He was dressed nice and had tattoos above the elbow of both arms.
I hearted him immediately.
@Nicki….
I have so many crushes on Asian dudes… it’s ridiculous. One of my colleague is just too cute for words, in all his b-boy lover glory. Even his ringtone is some old-school, breakdance song.
“I have so many crushes on Asian dudes… it’s ridiculous. One of my colleague is just too cute for words, in all his b-boy lover glory. Even his ringtone is some old-school, breakdance song.”
@Lovely: YES, YES.. what is it about this b boys??? that’s why I liked him.. I think I’ve been watching too much America’s Best Dance Crew.
Lovely, Nicki-I am concerned. I dunno my friend’s fiance is Asian and I like him, but then I don’t. It’s weird.
“Lovely, Nicki-I am concerned. I dunno my friend’s fiance is Asian and I like him, but then I don’t. It’s weird.”
Why weird?? Tell us about it
he’s controlling and insensitive…thinks money means more than time
“he’s controlling and insensitive…thinks money means more than time”
Aw naw.. not feeling it..
I have a homegirl who is the funnies thing walking. She was at VS’s house too..She goes
“try him out. Asians are better at everything anyway.”
I could have died.
Oh god… I’m tickled green thinking about it. How u gonna make a blanket statement liek that with NO LAUGH.
The lady on the right in the pic on todays topic has a severe case of noassatall.
“The lady on the right in the pic on todays topic has a severe case of noassatall.”
Thank you Captain Obvious
EW… she does, she does!!!!!
@Nicki… that was funny though…
@Jaci, your friend’s fiance has issues, that’s all. But some might have some traditional and conservative views of marriage… I sorta dated an Asian guy… but he was the coolest though, he single-handedly spurred my love for old school hip hop (which I knew nothing about)…
Now that I think about it, I do have a lot of Asian friends…
@Humble… That was so not nice.
How was your week-end?
@Lovely: It was.. I’m still cracking up.. she says the hoodest, funniest stuff. I heart her.
We were talking about “rocking the mike” once and she says, “I ain’t throwing lips to that sh!t.”
Has me in tears DAILY
I can be friends with the mic.
Ok back on topic…lovely-he’s just a douche bag
“he’s just a douche bag”
This phrase has me in tears also.
@Lovely Paradox
“How was your week-end?”
It was aight. Went to a car show. The car show was at the same place that the T.I. concert was. It was a hoodrat fest there. I also spent a good portion doing IT in my house. I was having all type of computer problems this weekend.
We were talking about “rocking the mike” once and she says, “I ain’t throwing lips to that sh!t.”
She must plan on being single forever.
“We were talking about “rocking the mike” once and she says, “I ain’t throwing lips to that sh!t.”
She must plan on being single forever.”
I tried to tell her Humble.. she want some body to get down and put thier mouth on her big ole toes, she’s gotta be a little less selfish with the mouth piece
“It was aight. Went to a car show. The car show was at the same place that the T.I. concert was. It was a hoodrat fest there”
Did u get good uses out of the hoodrats?
We were talking about “rocking the mike” once and she says, “I ain’t throwing lips to that sh!t.”
She must plan on being single forever.
I seriously can’t believe there are people who still say they don’t do oral. That was cute in HS but as a grown person? They should go play in traffic.
“I seriously can’t believe there are people who still say they don’t do oral. That was cute in HS but as a grown person? They should go play in traffic.”
She is soooo adamant about it too.
@ Nick
Has she ever even tried it?
Jada-That’s awful not play in traffic…maybe douse themselves in gasoline and smoke that blunt.
Nicki-Lol…you cute real cute.
Hummy-Did any of them have big a$$es that you could skeet in..on.
@ Jac
Hummy-Did any of them have big a$$es that you could skeet in..on.
ROTFLMBO!
I’mma need for you not to be encouraging this behavior.
@ Hummy
Never trust a big butt and a smile! (c) BBD.
“@ Nick
Has she ever even tried it?”
She’s tried it but bc the relationship didn’t last, she feels like it’s something hanging over her head. But from what I hear, she drops trou real, really early.
“Jada-That’s awful not play in traffic…maybe douse themselves in gasoline and smoke that blunt. ”
DEAD
She’s tried it but bc the relationship didn’t last, she feels like it’s something hanging over her head. But from what I hear, she drops trou real, really early.
Ok Nick I’m slow. Does she think it caused the demise of the relationship? Or she’s just ashamed she did it in the first place?
@Nicki
“Did u get good uses out of the hoodrats?”
We looked at the tight dresses and stuff but that was it. Whats funny is that T.I. and other dudes headlining the show are around are age but most of the people going to the concert were teens to early 20s. My friends are on a totally different page than those going to a concert. They have careers, fiance’s and families so they aren’t taking hoodrats too serious.
“Ok Nick I’m slow. Does she think it caused the demise of the relationship? Or she’s just ashamed she did it in the first place?”
She’s ashamed girl… but she didn’t say nothing about being embarrased for having s3x. GO FIGURE
“Whats funny is that T.I. and other dudes headlining the show are around are age but most of the people going to the concert were teens to early 20s. My friends are on a totally different page than those going to a concert. They have careers, fiance’s and families so they aren’t taking hoodrats too serious.”
Hopefully no one is taking the hood rats too seriously
“Did any of them have big a$$es that you could skeet in..on.”
LOL. Wtf. Jac you knocked me off balance with this comment. LOL
She’s ashamed girl… but she didn’t say nothing about being embarrased for having s3x. GO FIGURE.
Unstable creature!
Y’all a mess….
So Humble you was out chasing hood rats????
I know that’s not even you so I was just playing….
Man, I wish it was time for me go home… I can barely keep my eyes open.
“She’s ashamed girl… but she didn’t say nothing about being embarrased for having s3x. GO FIGURE.
Unstable creature!”
And that she is.. I love my girl, but she’s a beautiful MESS
@ 80’s
I’m starting to doze too. I got less than an hour though!
@Jada
“Never trust a big butt and a smile! (c) BBD.”
I had to learn this the hard way.
What about a medium butt in a smile (*cheeses*)?
I had to learn this the hard way.
((((Hummy))))
Don’t feel good when you learn the hard way…I know!
@Nicki
“What about a medium butt in a smile (*cheeses*)?”
What is a medium butt?
@Humble
“Never trust a big butt and a smile! (c) BBD.”
I had to learn this the hard way.
Don’t blanket over all the big butt-ed smiling ladies around.
@Nicki, your friend sounds very funny… and a bit of a mess… like all of us.
@Jada
“Don’t feel good when you learn the hard way…I know!”
Who you tellin.
@Lovely Paradox
“Don’t blanket over all the big butt-ed smiling ladies around. ”
IDK. The jury is still out. I am waiting to be proved wrong.
““What about a medium butt in a smile (*cheeses*)?”
What is a medium butt?”
Not big and not Cotdayum either.. lol.
“@Nicki, your friend sounds very funny… and a bit of a mess… like all of us.”
U’ve got that right!
Talk to u later loves
Bye Nick…
@Humble…. I see more text messages have been released….
Nicki-Your friend got probs.
Hummy-Sorry I’m just saying…I know how you do.
Jada-I used to feel some kinda way about rockin the mic especially if it wouldn’t you know…but once I made one tada! then I was for it!
@80s-Hey girl! Don’t go to sleep at the desk…
Lemme go read these text!
@Jac…… Girl, I’m holding on…. But 4:30 ain’t gettin here fast enough…. I’m going on, getting out these work clothes, turning off the phone, and gettin my butt in the bed!!!!!
Instead of going on… I meant going home.
Bye Nick.
@ Jac
I think most of us women had reservations at first. Which I think is only natural. But if you’re grown and sexually active…get over yourself…especially if there are some sexual favors you are requiring.
@Jac…… Girl, I’m holding on…. But 4:30 ain’t gettin here fast enough…. I’m going on, getting out these work clothes, turning off the phone, and gettin my butt in the bed!!!!!
After I feed and walk the dog, I intend to do the same!
After I feed and walk the dog, I intend to do the same!
@jada… This nap is bout to be sooooo good to me… LOL
@jada… This nap is bout to be sooooo good to me… LOL
80’s Dear…I know all abou them lover-ly naps! TRUST! Have a sweet dream too!
it’s a wrap we’re sitting up in here talking about sleep like it’s s3x
LOL @ Jac!
I know right! When you get older, you don’t play bout your sleep girl. Body can’t take what it used to.
Jada-Girl I know you right! I am going to the bed right now!
Have a good one then Jac!
Grazia…
I’ll be back later is there blogTV this week?!
Somebody bbmessenger me and let me know!
Thanks…
@80s
“I see more text messages have been released”
Yes, I heard it on NPR about an hour ago. These are the texts they fought to keep from getting released. So now people can read about the mayor and his affair with Scottie Pippen.
I know right! When you get older, you don’t play bout your sleep girl. Body can’t take what it used to.
@Jada… Exactly.Everybody know the deal with me… If my phone is still I answer with two words I’m sleep… I don’t say I’ll call you back or nothing just I’m sleep and hang up… LOL
So now people can read about the mayor and his affair with Scottie Pippen.
@Humble… What in the heck???? Unbelievable….
80s-Hummy thinks that christine Beatty looks like a man…I agree…Carlita is so much more attractive
“So now people can read about the mayor and his affair with Scottie Pippen.”
LMAO
80s-Hummy thinks that christine Beatty looks like a man…I agree…Carlita is so much more attractive
@ Hummy… I can see CB lookin a lil masculine… It was her attitude too though… She never softened her facial expressions. She was always lookin hard.
@ No more… Where you come from???? LOL I thought he was talkin about the real Scottie Pippen..
Humble: “The lady on the right in the pic on todays topic has a severe case of noassatall.”
D@mmit Humble! I didn’t even notice that until you said something. Oh, the concavity! Miss Six O’ Clock! She gets the gas face and the official Hugh Jazz thumbs down.
Nicki: “We were talking about “rocking the mike” once and she says, “I ain’t throwing lips to that sh!t.” She must plan on being single forever.”
Yep. I concur that she should take Jada’s advice and play chicken without a car.
Singing
“if you liked it then you shoulda put your mouth on it! Oh, oh oooh, oh oh oh ohhh!”
Humble: “So now people can read about the mayor and his affair with Scottie Pippen.”
I heard rumors of Scottie Pippen being gay about eight years ago, but nothing came out of it so I thought it wasn’t true.
I’m late to the party. I saw the last few comments—what’s this about Scottie Pippen (see I had planned on a quick stop at the treehouse but now y’all trying to make me read more…lol)
“And not “falling in love” with pixie and what he isn’t…Everyone’s on “probation” until the “dust settles”. I wanna know that when a dude gets really comfortable with me..that I still like what i see.”
Comeback, you actually answered a question to my Thursday’s blog post (that I post-dated).
I know it’s a case by case basis, but I feel within 6 weeks you should see something good or bad about the person’s character/habits if you pay attention to the person and stay outside of the pixie dust.
@Lovely
“Fiance lives far, far away so I am trying my darndest to be a good girl. When the world knows you’ve (finally) decided to settle down, all the worms come out of the woodwork. ”
It amazes me how men come out the woodwork when you’ve finally decided to commit.
@Nicki – Kappa is on my watch list. LOL But hopefully I’m wrong. He must have the golden d if he has women going coocoo for cocoa puffs after having sex with him. You might need to steer clear. LOL
Hummy: You have gotten everybody totally and utterly confused.
Scottie Pippen did not have an affair. He’s referring to Christine B. looking like a man.
Hugh: Wow…now that should be on youtube ranking right up there with d!ck in a box.
Jaci–thanks for clearing that up. I know I usually get entertainment news and that one went right past me
@ Humble “This is off-topic but I have a question for everyone. I am thinking about using Firefox permanently instead of on again off again. Are there any downsides to using Firefox over Internet Explorer?”
Dude are you real? Just type in something on IE without thedumbass “.com.” IE says it cant find it..said the same in 1996 ya know-go to Firefox and type in the same word sans .com and boom without the stupid need to write dot com it’ll find it-IE like most PC based things sucks and swallows..go to Mozilla NOW!!!!! Oh yea lemme add when I brought my Mac ya know how many drivers I had to download….0, Macs come game ready
Anyway CBG as a resident of my city worst hood I never cared what the prevaling thoughts or philosophies were had I-I would have the baby motha’s and felonies to go with it-I mastered the art of thinking for myself while appearing to care what everyone else though, like when coming up ALL the boys didnt “eat it” – I did (still do BTW:) but if I would have cared what people think I would have deprived myself something too good to not try.
Last but not least maybe I am too street with this one but anyone sending pics of body parts wants sex to the person that accepts it I mean if I told my dudes “yea shorty I sent the dick pic to, we going out” they would no doubt start the “damn I know you phucking her soon if not tonite” talk , thats how I see it. Sometimes theres is a naivete within todays women that I really dont get. Whats there to figure out? Dick pic to chick and now chick agrees to see dude who sent the pic. I dont know, blame the Brooklyn in me but thats jumpoff status. What kills me is this sounds like a classy young lady. We all know dude done got the ass struggle confused with the class struggle but get time with a dime he did!!!