F.a.t Girl Slim: The Transition Part Un

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Once you’ve been sworn into the F.A.T girl club (Fabulous And Thick). I refuse to even call my fattest former self “fat “(lol), you’re still F.A.T. I was actually working on a more self actualized post last night, but I got to thinking what could be more self-actualized than the way in which you see yourself and how food plays the largest role in it all. For much of 2007 and part of last year, I ate unconsciously even as a self professed foodie. Only foodies should be “tasting” their food. Part of tommorrow’s post will be the discussion of self-acceptance and my relationship with and to food. I’ll also throw in some stuff, I’ve been following in Paul McKenna’s “I Can Make You Thin”. Yes. I’m beginning to think fat has a woo woo spiritual element too. I really am striving to get my life to continue to fire on ALL cylinders. Life, love and money is cool. But hel!, my body, my health really is one of the most important elements.

Far left is me today-45 mins ago, just looking like Im off to French 3 instead of work (but this time I’m not gonna get a D-, oh Sister Seton how I’ve failed thee.)

I also got to thinkin this morning about what had gotten me here. Yeah I was there for the ghetto yoga in late 2007, but turns out I wasn’t doing a dayum downward facing dog thing.

I have tons of work to do today. When I play (I end up paying HARD, in the form of overload). I may not be on too much as a result. But I got some things to stay about the F.A.T Girl Slim movement tomorrow.

note: this is a bit of a departure from what I usually write, weight and food issues, particularly with women of color, aren’t the new black, not in the blogeshere.

No Responses to F.a.t Girl Slim: The Transition Part Un
  1. Teacia
    January 7, 2009 | 8:56 am

    Ummm, so what’s the point of this post again?

  2. Tea-I am confused too. I think we have to wait til tomorrow to really get it. I think it’s just her filling us in so she can work. Also, I think I can see what gets it there (see above) chicken wangs and real wangs.

  3. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 9:31 am

    i really aint sayin nothin…just more blog babble..lol

  4. Teacia
    January 7, 2009 | 9:35 am

    lol…well good for you losing weight. this is about you still losing weight right?!?!?

  5. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 9:38 am

    congrats on the weightloss comeback! I dont really have a relationship with food. I actually forget to eat.. which seems to be the problem. BUT I am a foodie.. I enjoy fine cuisine and good wine!

  6. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 9:40 am

    Congrats on your weight lost girl! I have a relationship with THEE wrong foods…

    LOL..

    I spent over $100 in healthy stuff Monday… Good luck to me.

  7. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 9:42 am

    Jolster, thanks, I kinda of think that EVERY woman with a weight “issue” has a relationship with and to food.

    Sunny, I’ll post about what I’ve been reading tomorrow…eating what you want but consciously.

  8. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 9:43 am

    note: this is a bit of a departure from what I usually write, weight and food issues aren’t the new black, not in the blogeshere.

    But obviously still very necessary discussions. Especially if one has dedicated a whole post towards it…or several. I think we all have our own issues with food in some way, shape, form or fashion.

    Some are too obsessive about food on either extreme. And most just don’t bother to strike some sort of balance.

  9. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 9:46 am

    @ JaJa “But obviously still very necessary discussions. Especially if one has dedicated a whole post towards it…or several. I think we all have our own issues with food in some way, shape, form or fashion.”

    true dat..JaJa..hope you are feeling better.

  10. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 9:51 am

    A little. Still coughing like crazy. I meant to tell you I bought a Feng Shui(sp?) book a week or so ago. Mad interesting this feng shui concept.

  11. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 9:59 am

    “Sunny, I’ll post about what I’ve been reading tomorrow…eating what you want but consciously.”

    Thanks chica… I can’t wait to see it and put it into action!!!

  12. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 10:10 am

    Again, the virus having folk are coming to work….. WOW. I don’t get it.

  13. Jac is On a Cosmic Journey-I wanna go HIGH!
    January 7, 2009 | 10:16 am

    Oh no….Nic..that’s sad.

    I’m still sitting here in my pajamas. That I put back on! I’ve been out the house twice…trying to lose weight still ;)

  14. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 10:35 am

    Oooohh Jac. That sounds so nice. Think I’ll be getting out of here soon myself.

  15. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 10:36 am

    Good morning yall!!! We were having network issues again today so I’m tardy to the party…..

    But this topic is right up my alley since I’m actually trying to make an effort to start eating healthy and get my problem areas together… .Wish me luck….

    @ Nick… So what all did you buy?

  16. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 10:39 am

    when ever I feel like im slacking in the weight department, I just go to my mirror and do my “Sexy” “Not sexy” belly poke in and out, then I laugh at myself for being retardedly silly and have a brownie with some milk.

    The end

  17. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 10:43 am

    80s: I bought those veggie steamed packets (in your grocer’s freezer.)

    Turkey Bacon (which I’ve NEVER had!)

    Pretzels (no doritos)

    three diff kinds of juice (kid’s juicy juice: 100% juice)

    Steak

    ground turkey (instead of ground beef)

    wheat bread (which I’ve being doing since Miami, instead of white)

    Chicken to bake

    Chicken breast

    Hmmm…… I think that may be it, but that doesn’t say $100..

    ***whispers @ Mik: I hate skinny b’s ****

    LOL. Yes, I’m HATING.. Hi hater to me!

  18. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 10:52 am

    lmao Nicki, true I wear 7 and 8’s and I used to be a 5 a couple years ago. I am considered to be in the petite department but there are still some area’s I could stand working on even skinny girls need to be healthy and I am so not that!!

    I wanna get my thighs in shape and work on my stomach and pull some six packs or something outta there NOW that I am single I feel like doing that lol.

    in a couple days….. I need it to be a little warmer outside lol

  19. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 10:55 am

    Hold up… Mik you single?????

    When did that happen??? I’m goin over to your blog now. :)

  20. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 10:56 am

    That’s true.. just because u are skinny doesn’t mean u can eat chocolate breakfast, lunch and dinner. LOL.

    I used to be little like u too.. although I wish I would’ve gained it better, I wouldn’t trade the “grown woman meat” for anything.

    Mik, u been doing crunches? Are u a runner?

  21. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 10:59 am

    validate me please!

  22. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 10:59 am

    @ Nicki… I think everybody is on the same track here… I went grocery shopping too and bought a few things….. My main thing was I wanted a healthy snack because if I’m eating in smaller portions then I’m gonna need something to tie me over…. I settled on 100 calorie mini bags of popcorn…

    My friend was just telling me that she’s on a fruit, vegetable, and nuts fast….. I’m here over here like hmmmm wonder if I can do that.

  23. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 11:01 am

    lmao dang Jolie what the hell is in the water lol….

    80’s yea girlfriend!

    Nicki I haven’t been doing ANYTHING yet. But I think I want to get that lil crunches ball and when it warms up im gonna start running.

  24. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 11:02 am

    I am not a runner I am a swimming but I don’t feel like paying to swim at the Y so I just gotta use my legs lol, those are free

  25. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 11:02 am

    I wear 7 and 8’s and I used to be a 5 a couple years ago. I am considered to be in the petite department but there are still some area’s I could stand working on even skinny girls need to be healthy and I am so not that!!

    @Mik… Me and you wear about the same size… But my skinny card was revoked…. Everybody tell me I ain’t little no more… No fair…

  26. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 11:14 am

    lol trust me I get it to from the fam, always asking if im preggers! shat are YOU preggers lemmie alone!

    lol

  27. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:18 am

    Running is thee best option Mik.. it works everything.

    “My friend was just telling me that she’s on a fruit, vegetable, and nuts fast….. I’m here over here like hmmmm wonder if I can do that.”

    @80s: I know I can’t… I’m so friggin picky.. there’s only two kinds of nuts I’ll mess with and very few fruits… I have tried and tried mangos and melons but cannot!!!!!

    Is she just drinking water?

  28. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 11:23 am

    yea Nicki thats what I have heard and I can’t wait to start running, But I gotta get some asthma medicine and some running shoes. I can’t be dying from an attack and tripping over my shoe laces at the same time lol.

    I may go shoe shopping today! woooopeeeee

  29. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:24 am

    Mik: U are right… I don’t need any of that happening to u..

    “Here lies the future Jackie Joyner Kersey”

  30. Humble One
    January 7, 2009 | 11:24 am

    Good Morning People, Mik u dropped homey b/c of his hotdog game?

  31. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:26 am

    hey Hum!

  32. Tea
    January 7, 2009 | 11:27 am

    Ok yall…so yeah, ummm my sister is the devil.

    Thanks to her I signed up for a blackpeoplemeet profile and there are sooooooooooo many black men on there here in the north florida area…oh lawd, hold my mule.

  33. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:28 am

    LOL Tea… let me know how that turns out!!!!

    One of my old high school classmates told me she’s signed up for it too. She said she met a lot of guys that way.

  34. Tea
    January 7, 2009 | 11:31 am

    It’s a niggasis on there…all black and all local. I didn’t even know so many black men lived here who had REAL jobs…but I’m not sending any messages.

    I put my profile up, a few pics and I’m going to sit back and let the current flow as it may.

    Wait, Mik you dropped ol boy…where did you say that?!?!?

  35. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 11:31 am

    “Mik u dropped homey b/c of his hotdog game?”

    Damn. LOL

  36. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 11:32 am

    @Nick…. I know she’s a fan of Diet Rite so I’m not sure if she’s cut that out this week or not… But knowing her she probably did….. It’s a spirtual cleanse for her but I’m thinking this might could be some sort of diet for me :) at least for a little bit to get all the fatty stuff from the fried foods out of my system.

    “I can’t be dying from an attack and tripping over my shoe laces at the same time lol.”

    @Mik…You’s a fool…. :) I may just start running as well….With yall…… Just to put some variety in my workout… I know this lady who teaches kickboxing classes so I’m bout to do those. I’m excited to start going to those classes.

  37. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:34 am

    Tea: U kilt me on Niggasis. That is funnier than “manicane!”

    @80s: I was trying to do Dr. Ian’s FatSmash diet and that was the first step.. called Detox. It said u could be cranky and have bad breathe.

    I did it for a half of a meal. LMAO

  38. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:39 am

    I haven’t heard Jamie Foxx, but this song it hot:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MlHb06uwTE

  39. Tea
    January 7, 2009 | 11:41 am

    His CD is hot!

  40. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:43 am

    Tea: I might have to get it because this song makes me want to dance.. I can play this while I’m getting ready. :)

  41. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 11:47 am

    @nicki.. what song is it?? you know I can’t do youtube at work….

    Tea, I can’t get down with the a couple of them songs on the first half… I starts at number 5….

  42. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 11:48 am

    I start @ The Miss Independant Remix. Although I love track with TI.

  43. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:50 am

    @80s: It’s the one called alcohol with T. Pain

  44. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 11:54 am

    Yay for 80’s on the new Kayne work out plan

    and 1 and 2 and 3 and 4 get you azz out the door!

    oh

    Humble and NoNo yes I did…..

    what yall think?? was I outta line a lil bit??

    im too young to die

  45. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 11:56 am

    80s: It’s the one called alcohol with T. Pain

    @ Nicki… At first I didn’t like that song until I started hearing it in the club… And I used to start the cd at 6 but now I start it at 5 so I can hear that song…

    @Jada…. I’m with you I like the song with T.I. but I don’t know what happened with songs 2,3, & 4

  46. Teacia
    January 7, 2009 | 11:58 am

    Not every song can be a hit…I think he was experimenting with the first few…but the CD definitely rides.

  47. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 11:59 am

    I am listening to it on youtube, which I hate… I’m lookin for it on imeem.

  48. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:01 pm

    @ Mik

    really don’t appreciate that quick demise..i said a VERY VERY SPECIAL manifestation relationship prayer over your situation and his hot dog..and look what you do to me??
    :(

  49. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 12:02 pm

    Yay for 80’s on the new Kayne work out plan

    @Mik….Yeah girl….Gots to get this pudginess in my stomach area together…. So if the preggers comment come up I can lift up my shirt like do this stomach look like it’s a baby in there…..

    Cause chile if I was to try that now I would get a blank stare… Like ummm yes it looks like there’s baby in there.

  50. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 12:05 pm

    lmao comeback IM sorry!!!

    trust me I thought about it LONG AND HARD (no pun lol) It just took me a while to come to grips with it cuz I really really didn’t wanna do it….

    But I gotta be true to me and if true to me means I like b d’s and not teaching people ish about s*x then……….

    I gotta keep it really in all aspects of my relationships even if a part of it hurts.

  51. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 12:05 pm

    with songs 2,3, & 4

    Sounds like he’s using that vocoder thingy. Jamie can sing and absolutley does not need to use such nonsense. I think that is what’s irritaing my eardrums.

  52. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 12:06 pm

    “So if the preggers comment come up I can lift up my shirt like do this stomach look like it’s a baby in there….. ”

    ditto, we should come up with a workout plan and do it together like the fit club.

  53. Jac is On a Cosmic Journey-I wanna go HIGH!
    January 7, 2009 | 12:06 pm

    I know CBG I am sent up positivities for pen!s growth as well.

  54. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:08 pm

    “I thought about it LONG AND HARD (no pun lol)”

    nasty @zz heffa..lol

  55. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:09 pm

    speaking of hotdogs…im “really hungry” like a 8 on a scale of 1-10…lunch time..

  56. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 12:10 pm

    I am hungry too I need to go to lunch!

  57. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 12:11 pm

    “But I gotta be true to me and if true to me means I like b d’s and not teaching people ish about s*x then……….”

    I hear you on that…but did ol boy know that you had these expectations beforehand?

  58. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:13 pm

    “I hear you on that…but did ol boy know that you had these expectations beforehand?”

    Hmmmm. good question Nomore.

  59. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 12:14 pm

    I hear you on that…but did ol boy know that you had these expectations beforehand?

    Interesting question NoMo. What was the sex discussion you two had…if at all. Expectations?

  60. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 12:24 pm

    Oh Jada how was the NYE party last week?

  61. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 12:25 pm

    Hmmm

    we didn’t talk about s*x much before hand. I was taking a new approach tryin to shy away from that subject because in prior situations anytime I bring it up IT always went into to much detail and I didn’t want that to be the first thing on his mind, I wanted him to actually get to know me… I didn’t think it would be a big deal. I mean can u really go up to a man and say “Sir I expect you to have a big d and know how to break my back with it, and give me an O each and every time”

    what man is gone be like nah I can’t do that…….

    Everytime I talk about s*x some man always ended up testing me….

  62. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:33 pm

    ok i need to fly to denver on inaug day ??? do i smell a conspiracy???

  63. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:33 pm

    who and the FYCK plans a major network meeting at 11 am on 20th LOL …too funny.

  64. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:33 pm

    “ok i need to fly to denver on inaug day ??? do i smell a conspiracy???”

    Dang… all day Comeback????

  65. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:39 pm

    YES ALL DAY…i really can’t believe that lol..my mgr is a repub tho..surprise..i think im gonna just fly in for a day.

  66. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 12:39 pm

    Yep my 3rd eye says Don’t do it comeback don’t do it!!

  67. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:41 pm

    “YES ALL DAY…i really can’t believe that lol..my mgr is a repub tho..surprise..i think im gonna just fly in for a day.”

    Girl, that DOES sound a lil suspect.

    Is this something u have to attend?

  68. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 12:41 pm

    “I mean can u really go up to a man and say “Sir I expect you to have a big d and know how to break my back with it, and give me an O each and every time””

    Well if it is serious enough to be a deal-breaker later on, then yeah, you should’ve. You said it was top of the list so you shouldve made that clear from jump right? Not only did you dump him from something he had no control over (which is definitely your right to), but you didnt even let him know that it was a dumpable offense to begin with. Whats up with that?

  69. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:44 pm

    “Well if it is serious enough to be a deal-breaker later on, then yeah, you should’ve. You said it was top of the list so you shouldve made that clear from jump right? Not only did you dump him from something he had no control over (which is definitely your right to), but you didnt even let him know that it was a dumpable offense to begin with. Whats up with that?”

    He’s blasting u today Mik… LOL. but it’s true.. if it’s a dealbreaker, it should be stated in the beginning…. I’d be pissed if I was dating a man initally and everything seemed to be going great, and he took me around his family and suddenly he dumps me because he only likes women with long hair. WTF?

  70. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 12:44 pm

    @ No More… Interesting perspective.

  71. Humble One
    January 7, 2009 | 12:45 pm

    @Anitra
    “But I gotta be true to me and if true to me means I like b d’s and not teaching people ish about s*x then……….”

    Really? So as far as personality and character goes-it takes more time for you to consider him serious. But sex? He has 2 minutes(no pun intended) and thats it? I wonder how long before this dude finds a 2520?

  72. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:45 pm

    he’s givin me aguilt trip tho. vp’s and above blah blah….i might have to do it.

  73. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:51 pm

    “he’s givin me aguilt trip tho. vp’s and above blah blah….i might have to do it.”

    He’s PULLING A REPUBLICAN CARD on u!!!!!

  74. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 12:53 pm

    like I said everytime I have talked about the subject the men have always tried to go there with me, and that is a BIG turn off for me, as if a man can’t actually have a intellectual discussion about the issue and not be aroused and want to do it.

    Once you cross the line with me its no going back, its a deal breaker. Maybe this wasn’t the same case but, either way the outcome would not have been good.

    furthermore even tho this was a deal breaker there was other things, true I mighta over looked these other things had the s*x been up to par but since it wasn’t I had MORE time to ponder over other things that bothered me…

    I take some blame too

    Humble, his personality was good and I even thought about over looking the s8x issue but this is the rest of my LIFE we are talking about lol.

    Nicki bottom line is I don’t want to talk about s*x and allow the mental “she is a freak I gotta hit that picture”

    what do I do???

  75. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 12:54 pm

    i might have to take my democratic @zz..i love my job lol..i think Obama would want me to go. LOL but i did get some consulation..i was told we could have our own inaug party

    in

    denver…

    oh joy

  76. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:56 pm

    “Nicki bottom line is I don’t want to talk about s*x and allow the mental “she is a freak I gotta hit that picture””

    If a man thinks u are freak just because u have a conversation about s3x, then he is not a grown man.

    This is something that is important to u… something that can have the possibility of getting their arses dumped… they need to know in the beginning.

  77. Humble One
    January 7, 2009 | 12:57 pm

    @Anitra
    “Humble, his personality was good and I even thought about over looking the s8x issue but this is the rest of my LIFE we are talking about lol.”

    So your first few times of having sex with him delegates how he will perform for the rest of his life?

  78. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 12:59 pm

    “i might have to take my democratic @zz..i love my job lol..i think Obama would want me to go. LOL but i did get some consulation..i was told we could have our own inaug party”

    Obama wants us black folk to be smart.. although it sucks, u don’t also want to be “that black woman who didn’t show up.” U know?

  79. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 1:00 pm

    Obama wants us black folk to be smart.. although it sucks, u don’t also want to be “that black woman who didn’t show up.” U know?

    @Nick.. Or that black woman who lost her work keys… LMAO

  80. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 1:01 pm

    “Obama wants us black folk to be smart.. although it sucks, u don’t also want to be “that black woman who didn’t show up.” U know?

    i agree..thats what i meant..Obama would want me to be about the dollars…my bread is buttered on Mountain Standard Time (MST)

  81. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:02 pm

    “@Nick.. Or that black woman who lost her work keys… LMAO”

    Oh bless u 80s….Did u say anything yet?

    “i agree..thats what i meant..Obama would want me to be about the dollars…my bread is buttered on Mountain Standard Time (MST)”

    Exactly!

  82. CBG-Go where the bread is buttered.

    What is going on with Mik? nicki-Give me an update?

  83. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:06 pm

    Mik let go of her boo because she wasn’t satisfied with the Jimmy Dean..

    Point blank Period. LOL

  84. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:07 pm

    Mik, u made it about the Jimmy Dean on here but on your site, you fully explained it….

    NoMore and Humble: Please refer to her page..

  85. MIK-Bring yo as$ to me right the he!! now.

  86. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:10 pm

    Mik, I’m sensing that is mainly bc of the s3x but u would have “dealt with” the others if that was kosher. How is my third eye?

  87. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 1:10 pm

    lmao Jac Noooooooooooooooooooo

  88. Mik, I’m sensing that is mainly bc of the s3x but u would have “dealt with” the others if that was kosher. How is my third eye?

    I am gone High and I approve this message.

  89. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:15 pm

    “I am gone High and I approve this message.”

    Gracias, my dear

  90. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 1:15 pm

    Nicki ur 3rd eye is late lol , I just stated that at 12:53.

  91. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 1:16 pm

    Oh wait that was Jac My bad Nik lol

    Jac ur 3rd eye is late

  92. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:16 pm

    Dang it Mik.. that’s what I get for not reading er’ thang. LMAO

  93. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 1:19 pm

    Oh that was u Nik!!

    darnit both yall confused me lol

    I thought u said it then Jac repeated it and then I was lost lol..

  94. Mik-you need to make a s3x comeback

  95. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:22 pm

    Girl, yep… I said it but Jac repeated it… but I didn’t say it before I read your PARAGRAPH.

    And blahzay skippy and such.

  96. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 1:26 pm

    And the other stuff sounded flaky too…you said dude was opposite of the family members that did wrong but you held that against him…you didnt go into much detail but that doesnt sound fair either, as I have some fam who I dony approve of all their actions but I dont feel the need to disown them either. The work ethic thing I understand, but why did he need to motivate you not to be lazy? Isn’t that a personal responsibility?

  97. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 1:27 pm

    “And blahzay skippy and such”

    I am soooooooooo gonna steal this!

    yea yea Jac, I mean if im gonna parlay on the darkside I may as well enjoy it.

  98. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 1:27 pm

    Dont mean to be goin hard on Mik (pun very much intended) but I’m just not getting your thoughts on this one.

  99. Why So Awesomeness?
    January 7, 2009 | 1:34 pm

    I think you should be truthful and tell him why you dropped him. Dirty details and all. So he can work on it later and fix it for himself.

    A girl that dumped me (yes, before the custom made suits, ferraris, and the champagne river in my living room, I got dumped) told me that everything else was good, but I didn’t excite her. I didn’t understand this till years later, but now I do. I properly adjusted and everythings coo now.

    little did she know the monster she created lol…

  100. Jada Mwah!
    January 7, 2009 | 1:35 pm

    Oh Jada how was the NYE party last week?

    Sorry 80’s, they sent me home from work and I’m just logging back on. I love this laptop…I can keep up from my bed!

    It was slamming 80’s. I didn’t leave until 5:30am. So you know a sista was tired the next day. Hell Doug E Fresh ain’t leave til bout 3:30 himself. We had a ball though.

  101. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 1:37 pm

    Heroes I am going to have post coming outta my ears about the issues that you bring up but comeback gonna get me if i keep using her blog for my rants lol.

    I hear you and I wanna address both your points which may or may not get your approval but I still think are valid.

    But again at 12:53 I said if the s*x hadn’t been an issue those other things might not have matter so much.

    email me @ kimikeclark@msn.com if you want me to help u understand.

    Whyso I did tell him that but I didn’t go into full detail. U want me to give him amuntion for the next chick???

    uhhh “blank stare”

  102. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:37 pm

    “I am soooooooooo gonna steal this!

    LOL.. Mik: I can be clever about 10% of the time.

    I agree with Whyso… Tell him! It’s hard but it’s all apart of growing up (too bad I’m learning it at 28!)

  103. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:38 pm

    “U want me to give him amuntion for the next chick???”

    Ammunition????

    (*uses Mik’s patented blank stare against her*)

  104. Mik-BE nice!

  105. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 1:43 pm

    Mik: email sent

  106. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 1:43 pm

    Mik is you gettin sauncy with NONO…PBG had a blog tv gathering last nite and this dude from england called me sauncy..i think its like saucy..

  107. Why So Awesomeness?
    January 7, 2009 | 1:44 pm

    lol…why does it have to be “ammunition for the next chick?” I’ve heard this before from women. You don’t want him to be happy in his future relationships?

    If it’s happened now, it’s probably happened before. You don’t want him going around not knowing whats wrong with him…like pepe` le peu

  108. Enchantment Passing Through
    January 7, 2009 | 1:45 pm

    Are you guys sure she should reveal every little detail? To me the penis size this is a direct correlation to the male ego…and I draw the line at damaging the ego.

  109. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:45 pm

    “You don’t want him to be happy in his future relationships? ”

    And if u have no feeling for him, you’d want him to be happy in the future….

    U must still have some feeling Mik????!!!

  110. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:48 pm

    I wouldn’t tell him his pee pee was small… but I wouldn’t tell him that she could sense that it wasn’t emotional… and that she wasn’t satisfied with the overall act.

    He can’t help the size..

    I’ve been with some small guys and although frustrating, they can be good too.

  111. Are you guys sure she should reveal every little detail? To me the penis size this is a direct correlation to the male ego…and I draw the line at damaging the ego.

    His ego is already damaged! Mik done effed up

  112. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:48 pm

    Would tell him she could sense…..

  113. Enchantment Passing Through
    January 7, 2009 | 1:52 pm

    His ego is already damaged! Mik done effed up

    Iono Jacster. I don’t think the ego is damaged moreso than his feelings may be a little hurt.

  114. Why So Awesomeness?
    January 7, 2009 | 1:53 pm

    enchantment:

    yes. every. single. detail. A man must distance his ego from the cold hard facts.

    If I had a car, and had to replace the engine, there’s no “easy explaining” the mechanic can do that will change the fact that it will have to be replaced.

    he more details I have, the more I can do.

  115. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 1:54 pm

    “enchantment:

    yes. every. single. detail. A man must distance his ego from the cold hard facts.

    If I had a car, and had to replace the engine, there’s no “easy explaining” the mechanic can do that will change the fact that it will have to be replaced.

    he more details I have, the more I can do.”

    Whyso and his dayum wit and pixie dust.. .I tells ya.. what are we gonna do with you? LOL

  116. Humble One
    January 7, 2009 | 1:55 pm

    How old are you Anitra?

  117. Wit and pixie dust will do it every time. I hope there’s a lesson learned here.

  118. Enchantment Passing Through
    January 7, 2009 | 2:01 pm

    Whyso and his dayum wit and pixie dust.. .I tells ya.. what are we gonna do with you? LOL

    I’ll keep this in mind for the future. Though I hope to never have to go there.

  119. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 2:05 pm

    Humble 26

    im over here dyin laughin at yall

  120. cuzzo
    January 7, 2009 | 2:12 pm

    hold up hold up…now wasn’t that some half @ssed celibacy?

    waiting on a relationship, get one, then it all boils down to the sex in the end. das messed up.

  121. cuzzo
    January 7, 2009 | 2:13 pm

    @CBG

    something tells me you’re not going to post the before before pictures of yourself.

  122. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 2:14 pm

    “waiting on a relationship, get one, then it all boils down to the sex in the end. das messed up”

    aint this some bull shat

  123. The Notorious N.M.H.
    January 7, 2009 | 2:19 pm

    We good Mik.

  124. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 2:25 pm

    “something tells me you’re not going to post the before before pictures of yourself.

    i dont own the rights to them..why dont you do it…might play out rather interestingly. LOL

  125. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 2:28 pm

    laLALALALA.. LALALALALA

    Yello Treehouse!

  126. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 2:30 pm

    “something tells me you’re not going to post the before before pictures of yourself.”

    “i dont own the rights to them..why dont you do it…might play out rather interestingly. LOL”

    Am I slow??? I need a translator.

  127. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 2:33 pm

    I’ll explain in tomorrow’s post…it might start to sound a bit stalkerish (with the whys and hows)..but i’ll explain.

  128. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 2:36 pm

    “I’ll explain on tomorrow’s post…it might start to sound a bit stalkerish (with the whys and hows)..but i’ll explain.”

    Awwww. ok. :)

  129. Enchantment Passing Through
    January 7, 2009 | 2:36 pm

    Lawd I’m tired. Think I’mma take a nap. Catch up with you all in a bit.

  130. WTF?! CBG I need you to own the rights to your own photos.

  131. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 2:39 pm

    See u Jay Boogie.

    LUCKY.

    It’s snowing here. I want to nap too

  132. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 2:43 pm

    “WTF?! CBG I need you to own the rights to your own photos.

    its ONE photo…and i’ll explain tomorrow..with the actual photos.

  133. oh ok! I was scerrdt.

    I am so damned nauseous over there

  134. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 2:47 pm

    Jac u preggers?

  135. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 2:51 pm

    yadda yadda doodle-e-dee…

  136. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 2:55 pm

    *BLANK stare at Jolie*

  137. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 3:00 pm

    @mik: waiting to get the fugg out of here ughh.. this day is dragginnnnnnnnnn………..
    plus cant wait for a new day .. a new post so my “bloglashinings” can stop.. lol

  138. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 3:06 pm

    @Jolie I just validated you…but im gonna post on validation as soon as i write my life story for my stalkers tomorrow …(i mean fans-)..

    validation isn’t really necessary..i know i joke about it..but we hold too much weight on other people’s opinion..FYCK OTHER PEOPLE.

    maybe thats how I’ll start my life story tomorrow.

  139. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 3:09 pm

    Promise I didn’t hear the word validation until I got on the blogs… LOL

  140. Anitra
    January 7, 2009 | 3:11 pm

    lmao Nicki its sbm’s blogs fault

    all them bad people talkin bout we dont pay them any attention and all that shat!

  141. Enchantment Passing Through
    January 7, 2009 | 3:11 pm

    validation isn’t really necessary..i know i joke about it..but we hold too much weight on other people’s opinion..FYCK OTHER PEOPLE.

    Ain’t that the truth!

  142. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 3:11 pm

    @cbg: yeah i realized that I really didnt care until I read some of the comments and then I cared and then I thought about it and said “do I really care” and then myself said, “nah batch.. you dont care” and I got over it. Its all about ego.. my ego cares more than I do.. DAMN EGO..

  143. Coco
    January 7, 2009 | 3:11 pm

    Hey ladies…I’ve been on a lifelong wellness journey…I’ve found eating good and exercise works the best. But every BODY is made differently so just do what works for you. Believe me, I’ve discovered what DOESN’T work..lol. Anyhoo, I’ve been doing a new way for eating..works super well. Beans, protein and veggies in every meal. You don’t get hungry in between. I also will snack on sugar free fudgecicles for dessert. I lost 10 lbs last week…and working out of course…and one cheat day…Saturdays I ate whatever I wanted without restriction!

    Here’s the link…give it a go if you want.
    http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2007/04/06/how-to-lose-20-lbs-of-fat-in-30-days-without-doing-any-exercise/

  144. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 3:12 pm

    Oh bless u 80s….Did u say anything yet?

    @nick… My bad I’ve been away from my desk… But nope I haven’t.. And then I see that I got an email talkin about they want tht numbers off our keys so we need to show them our admin asst… I was like ahhhh i’m doomed.. My back is up against the wall… So I’m building up the nerve to confess. lol

  145. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 3:13 pm

    @coco… Thanks for the tips.. I will be sure to check that site out.

  146. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 3:13 pm

    @coco: thanks and welcome!

  147. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 3:18 pm

    “@cbg: yeah i realized that I really didnt care until I read some of the comments and then I cared and then I thought about it and said “do I really care” and then myself said, “nah batch.. you dont care” and I got over it. Its all about ego.. my ego cares more than I do.. DAMN EGO..

    Jolie Imma say something and its kinda related to the reason im writing this life story of mine tomorrow….i spent almost what…7 mos writing about a bullshyt azz relationship that people left and right was telling me was WRONG.

    You get it when you get it. And its apart of YOUR PERSONAL JOURNEY….be lucky to have one and and also thankful that you don’t have to live viacariously through others…

  148. Nicki Sunshine
    January 7, 2009 | 3:19 pm

    “all them bad people talkin bout we dont pay them any attention and all that shat!”

    I am dead at bad people!!!!

    Thank u COCO!!!!!! ten pounds?? that is amazin!

  149. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 3:19 pm

    thanks for sharing CoCo..I’ll check the link later.

  150. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 3:51 pm

    all this fitness talk.. *just opened up a bag of sour cream and chive chips* .. got me hungry

  151. Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!
    January 7, 2009 | 3:53 pm

    where did everybody go!

    I still got a half hour up in dis piece!

  152. Jolie Fatale
    January 7, 2009 | 4:01 pm

    @mik: I know right! Where they GO .. HELLO TREEEHOUSE

  153. Anitraclark
    January 7, 2009 | 4:11 pm

    they dipped out on us! how rude

    in my d.j tanner voice

  154. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 4:13 pm

    I’m here… and it wasn’t even D. J…. Mik who used to say how rude….

    It was Stephanie.

  155. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 4:13 pm

    im back

    what yall got to say..

  156. thecomebackgirl
    January 7, 2009 | 4:14 pm

    OOOOO..80s cold busted you Mik…it was STEPHANIE..get it right.

  157. Anitraclark
    January 7, 2009 | 4:15 pm

    lmao my bad my bad I knew that!

  158. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 4:20 pm

    Whatever Mik :) ………

  159. Anitraclark
    January 7, 2009 | 4:24 pm

    lol 80’s

    I started reading this book called caged bird yesterday

    its sooooooooooo depressing! I been reading and reading like omg when does it get to the good part!

    it will be just my luck the good part is on the last page lol. I am determined to finish this book without having needing therapy afterwords lol

    alright im going home 80’s u gone be around??

  160. 80's Baby
    January 7, 2009 | 4:27 pm

    @Mik… I’m going to bible study and going to see an associate’s baby….. But hopefully seeing that baby don’t take too long… I’m so mean….. But if I do it will probably be late night before temps make his nightly appearance. :)

    hey Tempie…lol

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