Buddah Pictured At A Thai Restaurant
I’ve decided to make my Monday posts, my musings. Things that I find really fascinating, annoying or perplexing.
As most of you know the economy isn’t at its all time best right now. Im starting to see a lot of Asain establishments really step up the feng-shui application and other outward spiritual elements to bring in cash, business etc.
I got my feet done last week at a really nice Asain salon and they had all of the little basin bowls running with hot water, as if people were sitting there. I asked the owner about it. And she was dancing around why. I just came out and said…”its kind of like the law of expectation. You are filling the basin bowls with water and running them as if people are there. In anticipation that they come.”. She nodded and said: “exactly.”
In this case, its not a statistical theory, rather an expectant one (did I just define a word with a word?). The idea is visualizing something that already is and the above case-acting it out. Its funny though because soon after 6 or 7 people came to sit in the pedicure seats.
Pictured is a statue of Buddha at a local Thai establishment. I’ve also seen him displayed with incense etc. But never a full meal: rice, chicken, tea, and grapes. I believe its a spiritual practice and an offering to manifest abundance.
The law of expectation??? Wow, that sounds like something from THE SECRET… my ex (toothbrush guy) turned me on to that… He purchased the book and the dvd for me. Sadly, I watched it and read the book and was really into it while we were dating, but my devotion has faded, due to my mind being clammored with a TON of other things. I’ve got to do better!
I havent watched the secret in a LOOONG time..you know i think they have it somewhere free on google vids. I thnk i listen to too much http://www.hayhouseradio.com LOL. And Louise Hay and Wayne Dyer, who really is the mother and father of all this stuff. And they’ve been around since creation LOL..well not really..but kind of.
I’m gonna have to listen to them. Are they on all day?
I think this has made me decide to keep $100 in my wallet at all times. This should theoretically make my account bigger. I definitely need that to happen stat.
Comeback, I need a job. Any recommendations?
no its different people…but you can go into the archives in listen to most of Dr. Dyer’s stuff.
JAC, what are you good at? Are you still in undergrad or grad? i forgot.
@Comeback: Ok great… I’m gonna check them out.. LORD knows I need my second-ly dose of postiviness to get me through the day.
is everybody off today??im workin’.
I’m off right now, but that’s normal I work afternoon/night. Finishing this last d@mned class. Also, I am good @ non-profits, fund-raising and such.
I’m working. BLah blah, blah.. I had a fantasy this morning, where i came in and no one was here bc I’d forgotten that we were off work…. yeppp…. didnt’ happen.
Ok so check it, I was in fort wayne IN, meeting this guy I meet online for the first time. We went to dinner, and he showed me around town, where he worked and went to church. We rented office space (super funny movie) and chilled at the house. I did spent the night and nothin happen cept a couple kisses. So the guy is real nice, im just not as attracted to him as i would have liked to be, he isn’t ugly he just doesn’t do it for me like that.
So then next day (sunday) my friend “S” calls me. Me n him been online chat buddies for over a year and we recently met a couple months ago. we talk ALL the time but he lives an hour from me so we don’t see each other much. We went out on a date a month ago and it was nice. So yesterday he calls me up to let me know he was stayin at his aunts house (by me) and asked me did i want to stop by he had cooked some tacos for him and his cousin and said i could come eat. So i get there and he stopped doing what he was doing to fix me a plate. I ended up meeting his aunt her soon to be hubby, his 16 year old cousin and soon to be cousins babies mom. Basically errbody was there. Eventually they all fizzed out and it was just us two. We watched urban legend 2 and fade to black (jay z). We was sitting on the couch and thats when he put his arm around me and from then on we was cuddled up. No kissing or anything. He is such a sweetheart and i find him way more attractive than the other dude and he is the same age as me which the other guy has 8 years on me.
So do i wait to cut this new dude off with hopes of something going down with “S” or do i just wait to see what happens??
ok…hang on i’ll be back in 15 mins.
Mik this letter is out of order on so many levels.
Can i use it for tomorrows post? I dont mean to use your dating life as an instructional blog…but i think people could learn some things.
thank you and God Bless America.
lmao why we gotta wait til tomorrow dang. Instructions?? who follows those??
i need a 3rd eye TODAY!!
darnit
I need you to date like a wh*** and have fun… You owe neither one of them anything at this point.
Innocent kisses are great… as long as you don’t let either into your love hole right now.
lmao !! im mad nicki just said “love hole”
mad mad mad
I already know what u are gonna say about the first one comeback 1. i went to his house, 2 i spent the night, 3 im sure u will find a 3,4, n 5
but the second one, im really not sure what i did wrong lol.
this is such a cluster of tragedies…i need some time to ponder. I got stuck on the first two sentences though…why are you holly hobbin to meet on his own turf. You’re not even givin him the opportunity to “chilveralize” you and see what he’s made of.
lmao that many huh?
comeback i dont like people in my fang sang space!
what if he was a crazy stalker? huh then what…
comeback do those pictures u put up come from that iphone? if so thats a good camera lol, how much are those things?
Praise the lawd CB
Comeback your literary skills kill me! LOL “this is such a cluster of tragedies”
We did say no to the home dates a while back. What time did you leave?
on the 1st I left at 10am the next day.
the second i went home at 11pm, that one doesn’t count !!!
dang yall are so harsh!! i need to be validated!!
You spent the night???!!! Mik, I am coming after you!!!!!
I can’t validate you..we’ve been to easy on these negros as is.
lmao Nicki I know I know, i gotta do betta, jolie is rubbin off on me !! lol
jac what say you? can you validate me?
I’m out of the celibacy club.
I want to come back in though.
Jac wtf!!!
do tell do tell !!
We can beat you back in… like the crips
Oh Mik..didn’t see that. I’m having a breakdown. Ummm…I validate the second but not the first. So I guess I can’t validate you either.
lmao nicki you told harpo to beat her??
I been having sex Mikster.
I sowwy. But I want back in. I can’t do it no’ mo’
@Mik: Hells yes… but I know Comeback has a tongue lashing for her. LOL
Ok so we agree the first was ALL outta order.
but jac what the hell man!!
I second the crip beating. with a side of rodney king
“sowwy. But I want back in. I can’t do it no’ mo’”
why did usher “Confessions” just pop in my head when i read this….
oh yea Nicki she gotta be in way more trouble than me.
Man…Mikki…I don’t know what happened.
It just happened. Not today but before awhile ago.
See Mik, I’m trying to validate you.
Trying to keep you from feeling unvalidated. So I’m taking the heat off of ya.
Mik maybe i should wait till Weds. I DO NOT want my truth serum to be your birthday gift.
did yall see that beyonce if i was a boy vid?
its hot
Comeback lets hear it, birthday n all
That video made me like the song…
I cannot validate neither one of you. You let your nation down.
“did yall see that beyonce if i was a boy vid?
its hot
”
mik can u post the link im lazy
lmao Nicki the nation huh?
I agree the vid made me like the song.
Thx Comeback…I’m lazy too.
Mik put it up.
LOL. The nation… I was trying to sound all official!
Congratulations on your dismissal from the celibacy club Jac. If there were other men here I would set up a pool to see which one of you is next and when. Mikki sounds like a good pick.
Thanks NoMore…let me get Humble for you.
No More…are you in the club?
And how was your weekend?
Also, let me say the problem with being none celibate is wanting it all the time.
“That video made me like the song…
I cannot validate neither one of you. You let your nation down.”
LOL…Nick thats where the problems start..when people can’t validate each other. i would like to take this opportunity and validate Christopher Columbus. Thank you.
HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLD the BLOG…JAC is not in the club???? details.
I would like to validate Bill Gates.
Mikki and Jaclynn are out the club. That leaves me and who else?
@Comeback: This is why I can’t validate them… they are putting the club at risk.
I validate Beyonce’s need to be loved, Flaws and All
I agree with NOMORE… MIK is next.
Humble…NoMore would like a pool on whose out and how soon.
Now I don’t have a penis (except for the ones in the drawer)
But I vote Comeback
And Me and comeback for sure humble.
@Jac: Im not at all in the club. Im not sure how long I would last if I was. I think I had relations at least four times this weekend. My weekend was good, not only because of the relations, but because I had a really fun time hanging out with some friends. How was yours?
“Now I don’t have a penis (except for the ones in the drawer)”
WHAT THE HELL? LMAO.
Heroes I bet on my damn self shooooot!!!
I will gladly take next lol.
Sike guys i don’t forsee me getting out soon, i mean my birthday is coming n all, maybe i should just crawl under a rock until the week is over.
i validate donald trump
“But I vote Comeback”
i think you might be right about this. but since im pen-in a novel about our adventures next month. Ive committed to the club for AT LEAST 45 more days. i cant be trickin’ and writing about the The Celibates Club.
i validate my vagina
Ummm… NoMore, tell me if it’s too personal, but I was wondering… four times, same person? I was just curious?
I validate my bullet… that I only used because I was stressed and it helps me go to sleep.
i know what would keep me in the club, thinking about becoming preggers!!!
heroes either yall got birth control a couple layers of protection or both……
NoMore…well if you count the things in the drawer I might be at four myself.
FOUR?!?!!? WTF? Her vajayjay probably has a heartbeat today and is looking for you!
I am just…so look NoMore where you at again?
LOL
ROTFLMAO @ Nicki and comeback
yall are nuts
I validate the blue bullet, the silver doubles, that yellow thing, purple one, BIG clear one and that seahorse.
I vote Nicki because she is quiet and suspect and humble because my 3rd eye says so
JAC…details about your escapades please. I think you were lyin ANYWAY about your Celibate dates. but just amuse me.
Mikki, I hate to say it but you are going to fall first. Comeback will be next. That will leave me and Nicki holding the club down. I know I am good till December unless something comes up. And i seriously doubt I will meet anybody before then.
Mikki:Not Nicki or Humble…He’s trying to get that money and she trying to get that ring.
Focus.
I want $ex please.
@Mikki
“I vote Nicki because she is quiet and suspect and humble because my 3rd eye says so”
Your 3rd eye has pink eye.
Well let’s see first I had him over. It was nice and fun.
Then about two weeks later I had a mid-day interlude. That’s when I started praising Humble’s backshots theory.Lawd…flat on your stomach…Geezus.
And then Friday before last…I concur with those who like head too…Man it’s extra fab.
@Mik: Dammit, I’m suspect???!!! What I do? I’m over here cracking up!
@Humble: Thanks man… I do believe we are holding this torch. Thanks Jac!
Gotta love Comeback. You are hilarious. Jac, we need details.
“You’re third eye has pink eye”
LMFAO
@Nicki: Three times with one person, once with another
@Mikki: Thats right. Actually three methods, pulling out w/the condom on while she’s on BC. If someone ends up pregnant off that then thats the work of Satan
@Jac: Sounds like you have your hands full…literally
did one of yall imply i was a whor$e on my own dam#n blog LOL…
“Your 3rd eye has pink eye”
ROTFLMAO humble u aint right…
“Then about two weeks later I had a mid-day interlude. That’s when I started praising Humble’s backshots theory.Lawd…flat on your stomach…Geezus.
And then Friday before last…I concur with those who like head too…Man it’s extra fab.
”
@ JAC…i reckon you never were in the club.
@ Heroes, 2 diff girls??
comeback now he is ALL outta order!!!
NoMore:Pimpin homie. D@mned let me get like you.
Pulling out, BC and a condom…that would be a serious problem.
I am just…wow.
“i reckon you never were in the club”
Cosign. How is it that the women are lying and not the men?
LMAO @ JAC they wasn’t taken no kinds of chances lol, see this is why i need to have one boo and one boo only so if i case i did get knocked up it would be all good
3 diff methods? I mean thats just wow, how yall enjoying anything lol
No wait, one girl he isn’t using a condom with!
dang my 3rd eye is starting to work! im on fiya!
@Mikki: How am I out of order? And its still enjoyable. You have to leave the club to find out how. (evil laugh)
@Jac: Not pimpin. I can still count my # on two hands, for now.
@Mikki: Wrong! Flames doused.
Humble…son I’m going to hurt you…you know better than anyone that I most definitely was. Don’t make me fly to Detroit.
NoMore:How do you enjoy anything? I mean seriously…Let go, carefully but let go.
Heroes ok you gotta explain now brotha
@No More Heroes – You are doing it right. When you are playing the field you have to cautious.
Does any body have anything to say about Buddah?? can you validate him for a second?
thanks
lmao @ Humble co-signing this behavior
lawd have mercy Jesus
*Singing like a boy*
I dunno bout budda per say but i could use some of them grapes he is holding…
I validate the grapes
I guess im not seeing the big deal here. Man screws, girl orgasms, man pulls out when its his turn, man removes condom, man puts pen!s in girl’s mouth, girl sucks, man orgasms, happiness. I dont know if i can
explain that much more.
@Humble: Pretty much, cant be too safe.
I validate Buddha. I believe in a lot of the concepts of Buddhism.
Thank you guys.
for the validation. Imma code crack mik’s quagmire for tomorrow’s post.
Is No more out of order? im not sure. I will say that he’s honest. And i can appreciate that better than men faking the funk and calling it something else.
I validate NoMore. I like head.
I validate Humble. I like Buddha.
Heroes
ROTFLMAO
wow, i see you in a diff light man, just wow…..
Mikster-I concur.
Heroes it wasn’t the sex i was questioning it was the TWO diff girls?
I mean, is like one betta than the otha?
just sayin….
did we run the men away again? Jac? Mik? Nick?
imma call yall JaMikNick.
@Comeback
“Is No more out of order? im not sure. I will say that he’s honest. And i can appreciate that better than men faking the funk and calling it something else.”
It is good to see a woman appreciate honesty.
I concur about NoMore’s honesty as well.
I didnt mean for the blog to go in the direction it did…I’m just very open about s3xual matters. And Im not scared to answer questions. And I really, really, really dont want any kids right now, so I eliminate most chances of that happening outside of joining the celibacy club. Hopefully im not looked at like the weird kid who eats glue in here.
@Mikki: If I’m single then why am I limited to just one person? The two people are different, not necessarily better.
” Hopefully im not looked at like the weird kid who eats glue in here.”
not at all..it appears a few of the celibates are a few lubes away from slippin back into the se@x club.
“it appears a few of the celibates are a few lubes away from slippin back into the se@x club”
*whistling and looking around the room suspiciously*
I guess Heroes, if your not lyin to them to kick it….
The convo plays out in my head somethin like
“hey heroes am I the only girl your sleep with?”
your reply: No, i got another girl on and no disrespect but I am a single man.
me: Ok now that we cleared that up, where do you want it, in the bed or on the kitchen table?
the end….
then i woke up…
I’m guessing its ok for them to sleep with other men too…… which they probably do am i right?
“I’m guessing its ok for them to sleep with other men too…… which they probably do am i right?”
No More is that right.???
ok you guys..gotta go pay for my reiki class.
Its ok for them to see other men, but they dont always take up the opportunity. But i’m not handcuffing them.
” but they dont always take up the opportunity.”
wow sounds like that situation works in your favor huh?
Well it did, until I met a woman whom I really care about. Now its not exactly an ideal situation, having a woman love you and want to be with you forever, even though she knows you’re not ready for that level of exclusiveness.
Ok please inaugurate heroes into the “thats deep man” association.
In all seriousness, don’t you feel like you are short changing her at all? I mean at what point do you decide that your “Ready” do you actually expect her to be there when you are ready to be exclusive?
I deep Heroes king of the “Good good” because that has got to be some REALLLLY GOOD D, AND I DO MEAN GOOD, to make me stay with you, either that or you telling me im your “main” and im the only one you REALLY care about, cuz i mean we can get stupid like that lol.
comeback can you just blog about him instead of me tomorrow puleezzz lol
deem*
I’m still in the club…. I was just off today and didn’t log on……..
I’m chiming in late. I had two weeks of information to upload on some sites so I couldn’t blog hop like I like to do.
Mikki, girl I’m co-signing what some of the others said, why worry about it if you’re not committed. You don’t owe either one of the guys an explanation—do you….just don’t spread yourself thin (meaning keep the legs on lockdown).
Have fun. If you don’t have a dayplanner or a blackberry, get you one. It’s a good investment and you can keep your dates straight. Have fun dating.
Comeback Girl I like the new look.
shelia a dayplanner or blackberry? thats deep lol, I don’t even want to be a serial dater but as I turn 26 tomorrow maybe i need to embrace that lol.
and the legs are on lock!! for now lol
@ Hi 80s. I know we;re ALL in the club. JAC been lyin on her situation. I need Mik to modify JAC out OUR celibacy club and into the “lying on my vajay jay club”.
@Shelia Thanks
@Mik happy early birthday
@Mik… Happy early birthday as well
Loves the new look Ms. Comeback
thanks Jac, i figured i spruce up alittle since yall were coming back.