Comments on: The Black Man Plan (revisited) http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/ Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:38:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jolie Fatale http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/#comment-754 Jolie Fatale Wed, 23 Jul 2008 17:53:23 +0000 http://thecomebackgirl.wordpress.com/?p=626#comment-754 Hi Comeback, I am definitely a lurker but thought i would post. I really enjoy your blog and can really relate to where you are coming from. I think that finding out more about ourselves and recognizing our patterns is half the battle. I see you are fighting that battle. keep on keeping on. . Hi Comeback,

I am definitely a lurker but thought i would post. I really enjoy your blog and can really relate to where you are coming from. I think that finding out more about ourselves and recognizing our patterns is half the battle. I see you are fighting that battle. keep on keeping on. .

]]> By: HNIC http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/#comment-753 HNIC Tue, 22 Jul 2008 11:05:52 +0000 http://thecomebackgirl.wordpress.com/?p=626#comment-753 Good sex clouds judgments? I have never stayed with any of the women I met this year who gave me great sex.... but then again "ALL" of them dumped me so I guess that claim is invalid? Anyways, I feel the you attract who you are stuff is malarkey! I never attract clones of myself, and am usually not attracted to women who are like myself. but then again I dont think a woman with my disposition would still be in the dating pool so perhaps thats why I dont run into any. I do find it rather funny that old head has the same complaints about you that I do, we must be the same type with only $$ separating us. Alot of us dudes when we get up in these late years almost feel like we would rather have a "project" than to start totally new with another random woman. I know I have a female I didnt exactly work out with the first time around and we are having a decent time now the 2nd. she needed a few more months to sit home alone to be more appreciative of men, I needed to run into a few more bum chicks to realize she wasnt as bad as I made her out to be the first time around. but in the end, you just have to like the other person... so in order to make a comeback... you have to ask yourself if you really ever wanted to? Good sex clouds judgments? I have never stayed with any of the women I met this year who gave me great sex…. but then again “ALL” of them dumped me so I guess that claim is invalid?
Anyways, I feel the you attract who you are stuff is malarkey! I never attract clones of myself, and am usually not attracted to women who are like myself. but then again I dont think a woman with my disposition would still be in the dating pool so perhaps thats why I dont run into any.

I do find it rather funny that old head has the same complaints about you that I do, we must be the same type with only $$ separating us. Alot of us dudes when we get up in these late years almost feel like we would rather have a “project” than to start totally new with another random woman. I know I have a female I didnt exactly work out with the first time around and we are having a decent time now the 2nd. she needed a few more months to sit home alone to be more appreciative of men, I needed to run into a few more bum chicks to realize she wasnt as bad as I made her out to be the first time around.

but in the end, you just have to like the other person… so in order to make a comeback… you have to ask yourself if you really ever wanted to?

]]> By: bgrits http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/#comment-752 bgrits Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:37:53 +0000 http://thecomebackgirl.wordpress.com/?p=626#comment-752 sorry for typos...no blogging after midnight sorry for typos…no blogging after midnight

]]> By: bgrits http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/#comment-751 bgrits Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:36:57 +0000 http://thecomebackgirl.wordpress.com/?p=626#comment-751 Good sex will cloud our judgement ( you didn't say it but I get the impression that it is a factor ;)) Make a list of what you want in a man and write everything down no matter how ridiculous. Then break it down into Negotiable and Non-Negotiable categories and decide how the guy fits. I mean we as women put more thought (have a list of characteristics) into buying a pairing a shoes then what we really want in a man. But at least you recognize Comeback that you have a pattern.....the stories I could tell you about my friends...lordy!!!! Good sex will cloud our judgement ( you didn’t say it but I get the impression that it is a factor ;) )

Make a list of what you want in a man and write everything down no matter how ridiculous. Then break it down into Negotiable and Non-Negotiable categories and decide how the guy fits. I mean we as women put more thought (have a list of characteristics) into buying a pairing a shoes then what we really want in a man.

But at least you recognize Comeback that you have a pattern…..the stories I could tell you about my friends…lordy!!!!

]]> By: 35% Off..... http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/#comment-750 35% Off..... Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:06:53 +0000 http://thecomebackgirl.wordpress.com/?p=626#comment-750 Shelia it is birthday time lol more on that later! all these A'S N O'S make my head spin lol. I seem to know what i want but always find my self with the guy thats everything I KNOW i DON'T want. its odd Shelia it is birthday time lol more on that later!

all these A’S N O’S make my head spin lol. I seem to know what i want but always find my self with the guy thats everything I KNOW i DON’T want.

its odd

]]> By: Shelia http://www.thecomebackgirl.com/2008/07/14/the-black-man-plan-revisited/#comment-749 Shelia Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:26:04 +0000 http://thecomebackgirl.wordpress.com/?p=626#comment-749 Being able to look at ourselves and dig deep beneath the surface can be frightening for most of us, but its something we all should do from time to time. I find myself doing that more so as it gets closer to my birthday and pushes me into a new decade of my life. Back to the ex...did it seem like he changed or was he constantly trying to criticize you throughout the date to make himself look better? Being able to look at ourselves and dig deep beneath the surface can be frightening for most of us, but its something we all should do from time to time. I find myself doing that more so as it gets closer to my birthday and pushes me into a new decade of my life.

Back to the ex…did it seem like he changed or was he constantly trying to criticize you throughout the date to make himself look better?

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